B.H.M. VS. L.E.P.-M. (FM-13-0363-12, MONMOUTH COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided February 20, 2019·No. A-1751-16T2·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1751-16T2

B.H.M., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. L.E.P.-M.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Argued January 16, 2019 – Decided February 20, 2019 Before Judges Alvarez and Mawla.

On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County, Docket No. FM-13-0363-12.

Andrew M. Shaw argued the cause for appellant (The DeTommaso Law Group, LLC, attorneys; Andrew M.

Shaw and Michael J. DeTommaso, on the briefs).

John F. DeBartolo argued the cause for respondent (Atkinson & DeBartolo, PC, attorneys; John F.

DeBartolo, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Defendant L.E.P-M.1 appeals from a November 18, 2016 judgment of divorce following a lengthy trial. She challenges the trial judge's findings regarding custody, alimony, child support, equitable distribution, counsel fees, and credibility. We affirm in all respects, but reverse and remand specific aspects of the alimony and child support determination for further consideration.

The following facts are taken from the record. The parties were married in 2000. Two children were born of the marriage in 2004 and 2006, respectively. The older child was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome and the younger child suffers from asthma.

Before the marriage, defendant earned approximately $35,000 as an office manager. She also worked as a cosmetician specializing in aiding injured and disfigured individuals. Her work was featured in numerous magazine articles. Defendant also owned patents and had authored a chapter in a plastic surgery textbook published in 2000. In 2008, she earned a bachelor's degree in psychology from Rutgers University.

Plaintiff B.H.M. possessed a master's degree in computer science and was employed as a software engineer, earning $125,000 in 2001. In 2008 and 2010, he received 500,000 and 406,000 stock options, respectively, from his employer

1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the parties and their children.

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valued at one cent per share. In 2012, post-complaint, he received 593,750 options also valued at one cent per share. The value of the options remained the same at trial.

In August 2011, defendant claimed plaintiff assaulted her and she obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO), which was later dismissed. Plaintiff vacated the marital residence and lived with his mother. On August 22, 2011, he filed a complaint for divorce and an order to show cause seeking, among other relief, joint legal and physical custody of the children. On August 26, 2011, the court entered a pendente lite consent order, which required plaintiff to pay for certain expenses and pay support to defendant and the children. The parties' consent order also awarded them shared parenting time. Specifically, defendant was designated parent of primary residence (PPR) and enjoyed exclusive use of the marital residence. Plaintiff had the children two evenings per week and every other weekend.

In December 2011, defendant filed a motion to modify the consent order and requested sole legal and physical custody of the children, more than double the amount of pendente lite support, and a custody evaluation. Defendant's requests were denied.

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The parties' motion practice continued in 2012. Relevant to this appeal, defendant renewed her request for a custody evaluation. The motion judge denied her request, and instead ordered a custody neutral assessment (CNA) and custody mediation.

In July 2012, defendant contacted the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (Division) and claimed plaintiff had not provided sufficient funds for the children's allergy medications. Plaintiff informed the Division he had provided the funds to defendant and she used them to purchase oxycodone. Defendant had been prescribed the drug as a result of ankle surgery she had in 2012. However, the Division's investigation established that more than one physician prescribed oxycodone for defendant and she had filled the prescriptions at various pharmacies. A Division caseworker who visited the marital residence discovered butcher paper covering the windows, which defendant claimed she had installed for privacy. The Division also learned defendant had self-medicated the youngest child's asthma with an oral steroid. The children's allergist informed the Division that defendant historically did not follow doctor's instructions, but relied on her own intuition regarding the children's medications. She also spoke badly of plaintiff in front of the children,

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"flies off the handle all the time," "screams at my staff," and kept a cat even though the children were allergic to it.

In September 2012, the children began attending public school because the parties could no longer afford private school. The children received good grades in public school, but had many absences. Defendant testified they were not really learning and did not deserve their grades.

In October 2012, Superstorm Sandy damaged the former marital residence. Defendant filed a claim with FEMA, administered in conjunction with the New Jersey Department of Community Affairs Reconstruction, Rehabilitation, Elevation and Mitigation program. The claim contradicted a statement defendant made in December 2012 to the New Jersey Senate Budget and Appropriations Committee, in which she asserted the home had suffered minimal damage from Sandy. Defendant applied as a low-to-moderate income family and claimed a yearly household income of $16,500, which represented the support she received from plaintiff. Plaintiff refused to sign the grant application because he believed the insurance proceeds were sufficient to repair the damage. Also, the parties' income exceeded the eligibility limits for a FEMA grant. The parties' insurance eventually paid $13,069.64, which nearly equated a repair estimate for the damage.

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Defendant filed another motion for increased support, which was denied.

The motion judge concluded:

defendant has not provided any rational basis whatsoever for relief, and [] she has not been candid with the [c]ourt. Defendant's [case information statement] shows credit card debt in excess of $39,000, [and] monthly expenses in excess of $10,000 . . . .

Clearly, defendant has failed to come to grips with the reality that both parties are debt-ridden and their financial circumstances must change.

Meanwhile, the Division's investigation had turned into litigation, and the judge handling that matter ordered defendant to undergo a psychological evaluation. In January 2013, defendant contacted police and claimed plaintiff hit her with the car door.

Plaintiff filed an order to show cause seeking sole legal and physical custody of the children because defendant was not following the allergist's orders, stopped giving the children their allergy medication, and permitted them to sleep with the cat. Plaintiff also claimed the children had excessive absences from school while in defendant's care and expressed concerns of her prescription drug abuse. Plaintiff's motion attached Division reports confirming his claims.

On January 11, 2013, the motion judge filed an order granting plaintiff sole custody of the children and supervised parenting time for defendant.

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Defendant filed a custody related order to show cause seven days later, which was denied.

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