B.H.M. VS. L.E.P.-M. (FM-13-0363-12, MONMOUTH COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedFebruary 20, 2019
DocketA-1751-16T2
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-1751-16T2

B.H.M.,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

L.E.P.-M.,

Defendant-Appellant. ___________________________

Argued January 16, 2019 – Decided February 20, 2019

Before Judges Alvarez and Mawla.

On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County, Docket No. FM-13-0363-12.

Andrew M. Shaw argued the cause for appellant (The DeTommaso Law Group, LLC, attorneys; Andrew M. Shaw and Michael J. DeTommaso, on the briefs).

John F. DeBartolo argued the cause for respondent (Atkinson & DeBartolo, PC, attorneys; John F. DeBartolo, on the brief).

PER CURIAM Defendant L.E.P-M.1 appeals from a November 18, 2016 judgment of

divorce following a lengthy trial. She challenges the trial judge's findings

regarding custody, alimony, child support, equitable distribution, counsel fees,

and credibility. We affirm in all respects, but reverse and remand specific

aspects of the alimony and child support determination for further consideration.

The following facts are taken from the record. The parties were married

in 2000. Two children were born of the marriage in 2004 and 2006, respectively.

The older child was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome and the younger child

suffers from asthma.

Before the marriage, defendant earned approximately $35,000 as an office

manager. She also worked as a cosmetician specializing in aiding injured and

disfigured individuals. Her work was featured in numerous magazine articles.

Defendant also owned patents and had authored a chapter in a plastic surgery

textbook published in 2000. In 2008, she earned a bachelor's degree in

psychology from Rutgers University.

Plaintiff B.H.M. possessed a master's degree in computer science and was

employed as a software engineer, earning $125,000 in 2001. In 2008 and 2010,

he received 500,000 and 406,000 stock options, respectively, from his employer

1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the parties and their children. A-1751-16T2 2 valued at one cent per share. In 2012, post-complaint, he received 593,750

options also valued at one cent per share. The value of the options remained the

same at trial.

In August 2011, defendant claimed plaintiff assaulted her and she

obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO), which was later dismissed.

Plaintiff vacated the marital residence and lived with his mother. On August 22,

2011, he filed a complaint for divorce and an order to show cause seeking,

among other relief, joint legal and physical custody of the children. On August

26, 2011, the court entered a pendente lite consent order, which required plaintiff

to pay for certain expenses and pay support to defendant and the children. The

parties' consent order also awarded them shared parenting time. Specifically,

defendant was designated parent of primary residence (PPR) and enjoyed

exclusive use of the marital residence. Plaintiff had the children two evenings

per week and every other weekend.

In December 2011, defendant filed a motion to modify the consent order

and requested sole legal and physical custody of the children, more than double

the amount of pendente lite support, and a custody evaluation. Defendant's

requests were denied.

A-1751-16T2 3 The parties' motion practice continued in 2012. Relevant to this appeal,

defendant renewed her request for a custody evaluation. The motion judge

denied her request, and instead ordered a custody neutral assessment (CNA) and

custody mediation.

In July 2012, defendant contacted the Division of Child Protection and

Permanency (Division) and claimed plaintiff had not provided sufficient funds

for the children's allergy medications. Plaintiff informed the Division he had

provided the funds to defendant and she used them to purchase oxycodone.

Defendant had been prescribed the drug as a result of ankle surgery she had in

2012. However, the Division's investigation established that more than one

physician prescribed oxycodone for defendant and she had filled the

prescriptions at various pharmacies. A Division caseworker who visited the

marital residence discovered butcher paper covering the windows, which

defendant claimed she had installed for privacy. The Division also learned

defendant had self-medicated the youngest child's asthma with an oral steroid.

The children's allergist informed the Division that defendant historically did not

follow doctor's instructions, but relied on her own intuition regarding the

children's medications. She also spoke badly of plaintiff in front of the children,

A-1751-16T2 4 "flies off the handle all the time," "screams at my staff," and kept a cat even

though the children were allergic to it.

In September 2012, the children began attending public school because

the parties could no longer afford private school. The children received good

grades in public school, but had many absences. Defendant testified they were

not really learning and did not deserve their grades.

In October 2012, Superstorm Sandy damaged the former marital

residence. Defendant filed a claim with FEMA, administered in conjunction

with the New Jersey Department of Community Affairs Reconstruction,

Rehabilitation, Elevation and Mitigation program. The claim contradicted a

statement defendant made in December 2012 to the New Jersey Senate Budget

and Appropriations Committee, in which she asserted the home had suffered

minimal damage from Sandy. Defendant applied as a low-to-moderate income

family and claimed a yearly household income of $16,500, which represented

the support she received from plaintiff. Plaintiff refused to sign the grant

application because he believed the insurance proceeds were sufficient to repair

the damage. Also, the parties' income exceeded the eligibility limits for a FEMA

grant. The parties' insurance eventually paid $13,069.64, which nearly equated

a repair estimate for the damage.

A-1751-16T2 5 Defendant filed another motion for increased support, which was denied.

The motion judge concluded:

defendant has not provided any rational basis whatsoever for relief, and [] she has not been candid with the [c]ourt. Defendant's [case information statement] shows credit card debt in excess of $39,000, [and] monthly expenses in excess of $10,000 . . . . Clearly, defendant has failed to come to grips with the reality that both parties are debt-ridden and their financial circumstances must change.

Meanwhile, the Division's investigation had turned into litigation, and the

judge handling that matter ordered defendant to undergo a psychological

evaluation. In January 2013, defendant contacted police and claimed plaintiff

hit her with the car door.

Plaintiff filed an order to show cause seeking sole legal and physical

custody of the children because defendant was not following the allergist's

orders, stopped giving the children their allergy medication, and permitted them

to sleep with the cat.

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