B.G. v. L.H.

163 A.3d 375, 450 N.J. Super. 438
CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedMarch 24, 2017
StatusPublished
Cited by3 cases

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B.G. v. L.H., 163 A.3d 375, 450 N.J. Super. 438 (N.J. Ct. App. 2017).

Opinion

Civil Action

OPINION

PASSAMANO, J.S.C.

This matter comes before the court on plaintiff’s motion asking this court to find that it lacks jurisdiction over custody and parenting time issues or, in the alternative, to relinquish jurisdiction in favor of the courts of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. In addition, plaintiff seeks legal fees. Defendant opposes the motion and filed a cross-motion in which he too seeks an award of legal fees.

The court has considered the parties’ written submissions and heard oral argument of counsel. Following are the court’s findings of fact and conclusions of law.

I.

Plaintiff and defendant were married on January 10, 1993, and divorced on June 30, 2014, when the court issued a Dual Final Judgment of Divorce (“DFJOD”). The DFJOD incorporated the parties’ Property Settlement and Support Agreement, dated June 24, 2014 (the “Agreement”). On October 12, 2013, the court had entered a final judgment re: custody and parenting time issues by consent of the parties (the “Custody and P-T Order”). The Custody and P-T Order was incorporated into the FDJOD.

There were three children born of the marriage; two sons and one daughter. The older son was born in 1996, the younger in 2000. The parties’ daughter was born in 2006. The older son, who has mental health issues, is now an adult and lives in Israel. The [445]*445younger son and the daughter2 reside with the plaintiff in Massachusetts.

The younger son has severe cerebral palsy and is confined to a wheelchair. He cannot speak and communicates through facial expressions, eye contact, guttural sounds and a Dyna Vox communication device. He does not have use of his hands and virtually all of his daily functions must be performed for him.

At the time that the FDJOD was entered, the parties and the children all resided in New Jersey. Plaintiff had, however, expressed her intent to relocate with the children. Plaintiff states in her certification that “[a]t the time of our divorce, defendant consented to my relocation with the [younger son and daughter] to Massachusetts.” Defendant’s consent was memorialized in the Custody and P-T Order, which states that:

Father agrees that Mother may move to the Boston/Newton, MA area no later than the beginning of the 2014-2015 school year. The parties agree that until the children are attending college or no longer residing at home that they shall at all times maintain a residence no further apart than the distance between Boston/Newton, MA area and the Northern New Jersey area (which is approximately 280 miles).

Plaintiff and the children did in fact relocate and have resided in Massachusetts since 2014. Plaintiff further states in her certification that she and defendant contemplated that he too would move to Massachusetts to be closer to the children. Defendant has not done so, however, and he continues to reside in New Jersey.

In the Custody and P-T Order, the parties consented to continued jurisdiction in New Jersey. They also agreed that disputes would be governed by New Jersey law. The particular provision of the Custody and P-T Order concerning jurisdiction reads as follows:

[446]*44620. Jurisdiction: This Agreement shall be governed by the laws of the State of New Jersey for so long as one parent resides in New Jersey. Each of the parties hereby irrevocably consents and submits to the jurisdiction of the courts of the State of New Jersey for any future custody and parenting time disputes, so long as one parent resides in New Jersey.

As noted above, the FDJOD was entered in New Jersey. The Custody and P-T Order, which sets custody and parenting time, was also entered in New Jersey.

The custody arrangement set in the Custody and P-T Order provides that the parties have joint legal custody of the children. The Custody and P-T Order also provides that, after plaintiff and the children relocate to Massachusetts, defendant was to have parenting time as follows:

i. Every third weekend alternating between New Jersey and Massachusetts ....
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ii. If Mother moves prior to the summer of 2014, then Father shall have the summer 2014 and all future summers for the entirety of the summer period, with the exception of two weeks in the Summer Period which shall be deemed the Mother’s parenting time .... Notwithstanding the foregoing, Father’s summer parenting time during the summer period shall not exceed a total of seven weeks.
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iii.The entirety of the children’s respective Winter and Spring breaks ....

The Custody and P-T Order also sets out the schedule for holidays and special days and provides for daily telephone contact. A further order on February 10, 2014, provided that “[t]he parties shall transfer the specialized van at pick-up and drop-off so that defendant is able to accommodate the [younger son’s] unique needs during his parenting time.”

In his certification, defendant states that “I still exercise ample parenting time in the State of New Jersey.” Defendant also states in his certification that the incidents that led, at least in part, to the Massachusetts proceeding occurred in November 2016 when he picked up the children to attend a family wedding.

In bringing the children to New Jersey that weekend, defendant first went to Massachusetts to pick up the younger son. He then drove to Connecticut to pick up the daughter who was participating in a school retreat. Defendant believed that picking the [447]*447daughter up in Connecticut would save time as it was on the way between Massachusetts and New Jersey.

The daughter did not want to leave for New Jersey from Connecticut. Instead, she wanted to return to Massachusetts on the bus with her schoolmates and leave from there. Defendant, not wanting to drive from Connecticut back to Massachusetts and then to New Jersey for the wedding, refused. This led to a confrontation.

While defendant ultimately won out, it took “approximately an hour” and required that he deal with the daughter’s “tantrum.” Moreover, the rocky start seems to have colored the entire weekend. Defendant states that the daughter argued with him “about seating arrangements at the wedding” and “telephoned plaintiff several times from New Jersey.”3

Defendant recounts in his certification that within a week of returning the children to Massachusetts, two separate Massachusetts “Department of Children and Family (“DCF”) 51A complaints were initiated.” One was filed by persons at the younger son’s school and alleged sexual abuse by defendant. The other was filed by the daughter’s pediatrician and alleged physical abuse by defendant.

The complaint involving the younger son concerned a cut and rash on his genitals. It was alleged that he suffered those injuries while in defendant’s care. As for the daughter, the allegations involved incidents from when defendant picked her up in Connecticut and over the course of that weekend.

The Massachusetts Department of Children and Families determined that both of the complaints were unsubstantiated.

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