B.F. v. F.W.F.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided July 3, 2025·No. A-3072-23·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3072-23

B.F., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. F.W.F., Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted May 7, 2025 – Decided July 3, 2025 Before Judges Currier and Marczyk.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FV-04-2723-24.

Rosenberg, Perry & Associates, LLC, attorneys for appellant (Katherine Constantine Blinn, on the briefs).

Donelson, D'Alessandro & Peterson, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Linwood H. Donelson, III, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Defendant F.W.F. appeals from the April 24, 2024 final restraining order (FRO) entered against him under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35, after a trial. On appeal, defendant contends the trial court failed to make any findings of (1) a predicate act of domestic violence to support the entry of an FRO; and (2) whether plaintiff needed an FRO for her safety as required under Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006). Because the trial court did not make the requisite findings, we vacate the FRO.

I.

We derive the following facts from the trial testimony. The parties met in high school and were together for approximately thirty years. They were married for the last twenty years of their relationship. The parties lived together in Florida.

Plaintiff testified that on June 4, 2022, she came to New Jersey to visit her grandmother and decided to leave defendant and move to New Jersey permanently because she was "afraid to go home."

Defendant testified that plaintiff had started talking about a divorce in February 2022. He stated that when plaintiff went to visit her grandmother in New Jersey, she told defendant she was going on a vacation, and he did not know

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she was not returning to Florida. In July 2022, defendant started a new job and relocated to Tennessee.

Plaintiff testified that for the first two months after she left Florida, defendant contacted her "every day, multiple times a day." She stated there were hundreds of calls and she eventually got a new phone. Defendant stated he was contacting plaintiff during this time to confirm whether she was returning to Florida or pursuing a divorce. Defendant also testified that plaintiff was sending him derogatory messages which caused him to change his phone number in October 2022. After he did so, he said he no longer had plaintiff's phone number. Thereafter, there was no contact between the parties and they did not communicate until late 2023 or early 2024.

Plaintiff stated she received a message sent by defendant through the application "reddit" in February 2024. She did not present a copy of the message and did not testify to its substance. Defendant contested this testimony, stating plaintiff initiated contact by sending him a message on reddit. He stated that, shortly after, plaintiff sent him numerous derogatory messages and he then deleted his reddit account.

Plaintiff then contacted defendant on another application—"Telegram."

She testified she "sent him a message telling him what he's done to [her] in the

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past." The parties then exchanged a series of messages, in which plaintiff expressed her feelings regarding alleged past abuse by defendant, calling defendant, among other things, a "monster" that had "disfigured" her , and a "cheating bastard," and told him she had a boyfriend. Defendant responded, stating among other things, "I don't care anymore," "[g]lad you are in love. Hope it lasts. I wish you the best," "[I] would die for you," and sending a picture of a tattoo of her name on his arm.

On February 15, 2024, plaintiff received the following message from defendant:

Good morning [B.],

I sent you a link to send you . . . $1,000 for your filing/court fees. If that is not enough let me know.

I'll send you the money when you tell me.

I wish you endless happiness and boundless adventures.

I will always love you [B.].

Plaintiff acknowledged she received the money but did not respond to defendant who asked for confirmation of her receipt.

Plaintiff stated she received approximately 250 phone calls and twelve voicemail messages from defendant from six different phone numbers on February 28 and 29. She testified that two of the numbers came from New Jersey A-3072-23

area codes, which caused her to fear that defendant was "coming after" her to kill her because he had threatened to kill her in the past. Further, she stated that some of the calls came from two other individuals calling on behalf of defendant—a male and a female—who each called her about three times and left voicemails. Plaintiff did not answer or return any of the calls. She testified that, in the voicemails, defendant and the friends were asking if she intended to file for divorce and whether she received the money.

Two of the voicemails were played at the hearing. None of the voicemails were admitted into evidence. They are not in the appellate record.

Plaintiff's boyfriend, J.A., testified that defendant also called him several times on February 28 and 29, 2024, with the same five or six phone numbers used to call plaintiff. Defendant also sent J.A. numerous text messages, photo messages, and voice messages with aggressive and derogatory language and images. The context of the messages can be summarized as challenging J.A. to pick up the phone, calling him things like a "chump," a "p ussy," a "pedophile," and telling him to "[b]e ready for a f[***]ing hurricane." Defendant stated in one of the voicemails, "[I know] where you're at [a]nd you have a problem. . . ." He also said, "I am not being threatening towards you."

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J.A. applied for and received a temporary protective order against defendant under the Victim's Assistance and Survivor Protection Act (VASPA), N.J.S.A. 2C:14-13 to -21. At the time of trial, the VASPA order had not been served on defendant. According to defendant's counsel, the VASPA order was subsequently dismissed after a hearing.

Defendant testified that he used a "text through message app" that masked his phone number and assigned new phone numbers because he "figured " J.A. would not answer. Defendant stated the reason for the voluminous amount of calls was that he "had a couple of drinks that night and . . . got carried away ." He expressed regret at making the calls and for what he said to J.A. in the voicemails and text messages. Defendant testified that the purpose of his phone calls was to tell plaintiff that he wanted her to file for divorce.

Defendant testified he had not seen plaintiff in more than two years. He had not come to New Jersey and did not intend to do so. Defendant continued to live in Tennessee and was contemplating a move to Idaho.

Plaintiff also testified regarding allegations of past abuse by defendant while the two were still together: (1) on one occasion after plaintiff left an iron on, defendant whipped her with the cord of the iron several times and put the iron up to her face so she would feel the heat and told her to never leave it on

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