Bethel v. Bethel

164 S.W. 682, 181 Mo. App. 601, 1914 Mo. App. LEXIS 373
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 3, 1914
StatusPublished
Cited by10 cases

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Bethel v. Bethel, 164 S.W. 682, 181 Mo. App. 601, 1914 Mo. App. LEXIS 373 (Mo. Ct. App. 1914).

Opinion

NORTONI, J.

This suit proceeds at the instance of the wife, plaintiff, for divorce. Besides entering [605]*605a general denial to the averments of the petition, the defendant husband filed a cross-bill and prayed that the divorce be granted to him. After hearing the evidence and arguments, the court found the issue for defendant, dismissed plaintiff’s petition and dismissed, as well, defendant’s cross-bill. From this judgment dismissing her petition, plaintiff alone appeals.

It appears the parties were married in 1883 and had lived together as husband and wife for about twenty-eight years. Seven children were born of the marriage and six of them still live. -Both plaintiff and defendant appear to be hard-working people but in moderate circumstances only. During all of the years of their married life they lived on different rented farms. Plaintiff is a large, robust and forceful woman, while defendant appears to be a small and emaciated person and rather timid. The evidence tends to prove the parties got along well enough together until some seven or eight years ago when dissensions arose between them, and it does not appear that the defendant was entirely at fault. The record abounds with evidence to the effect that the wife mistreated the husband, and it abounds with evidence, too, tending to prove that he possessed considerable temper, was quarrelsome and mistreated his wife at times. It appears defendant has been suffering with poor health for some six or eight years and that he is exceedingly .nervous. Besides being small of stature and emaciated, defendant is very deaf. This affliction came upon him, in early life and has gradually increased during all of the years.

Plaintiff charges that defendant was guilty of such indignities toward her as to render her condition in life intolerable, and also cruel and inhuman treatment of her on his' part. The evidence for plaintiff tends to prove that defendant frequently became enraged and threatened to beat her. On several occasions he took a shotgun and kept it with him in ¡his room, [606]*606threatening to .shoot plaintiff, etc. It is said defendant would curse plaintiff at times, refuse to let her drive his horses and go to church, saying she was “running after” the preacher. Plaintiff says, too, her husband struck her several times with his fist in the mouth and nose and otherwise mistreated her.

On the part of defendant, it is denied that he made these assaults upon plaintiff, and his evidence tends to prove that she assaulted and beat him upon numerous occasions. The evidence amply reveals that plaintiff is the stronger person physically and the more forceful character of the two. She admits having taken a poker away from defendant on the occasion of one quarrel, and it is quite apparent that she was at least equal in point of physical strength to her husband and, no doubt, amply able to care for herself in the ordinary combat which seems frequently to have occurred. One of defendant’s witnesses, a hired hand who had lived in the family for some time, says he saw plaintiff slap her husband’s “jaws” on several occasions and one time she hit him on the head with a stick of wood. A neighbor, who lived about forty yards distant, testified that on several occasions he heard defendant calling for him to come to the rescue as he was being “beaten up” by his wife. This witness and others, too, testified to seeing defendant with a black eye, a bruised face, and bruises about his arms immediately after such melees had taken place and that defendant had stated to them he received such injuries at the hands of the plaintiff, his wife. The evidence altogether suggests with great force that plaintiff and, indeed, her elder children, had become tired of defendant as a member of the household and was anxious that he should leave. There is evidence, too, and the attendant facts and circumstances seem to corroborate it, tending to prove that plaintiff finally rented the farm on which they lived in her own name and told defendant to leave. At any rate, he left on the first [607]*607day of March, the commencement of the new term of lease, and it is quite clear that plaintiff had arranged the matter of renting the farm a few days before. Plaintiff says that defendant left the home on his own account, while he says she ordered him to do so, and, as before said, other facts and circumstances in the record tend to corroborate defendant’s theory with respect of this matter. Upon leaving, defendant went to the home of his married daughter, anidl shortly she or her husband notified him to leave there, which he did. There can be no doubt that upon these facts the court very properly denied plaintiff a divorce and dismissed the bill.

But the question in the case relates to certain charges of infidelity which defendant made concerning his wife. It appears that one Jones, who rented a farm in the neighborhood!, boarded with them and defendant became jealous of him. He repeatedly charged his wife with being intimate with Jones and insisted that Jones, Should leave, but she did not send him away for some time thereafter. It appears, too, the defendant complained with respect to this matter to several of the neighbors, and it is entirely clear that these charges were unfounded, for the plaintiff ap pears to be an honest and straightforward woman. Because of these charges, plaintiff insists that she is entitled to a divorce, for the court found them to be unfounded. This argument inheres with considerable force and probably should prevail, except for the fact that the court found defendant to be a nervous wreck and mentally unaccountable for the words spoken with respect to such matters. The court expressly found on the evidence that the charges, of infidelity made by defendant against his wife were without foundation and that she is an honest, well-meaning woman. But the judgment recites as well, and the court found the fact to be, that the defendant is a nervous wreck and was not accountable for his words and actions and [608]*608charges against his wife. There is evidence in the record tending to support this view, though it was npt elicited on the part of defendant and that matter was not relied upon as a defense to the action. The family physician, who testified at the instance of plaintiff, said defendant was a nervous wreck and all of the testimony tending to show the impaired and shattered condition of his health, together with his conduct for the last six or eight years, tended to reveal this to be true. Defendant is about ten years older than plaintiff and it appears that he had not only been complaining, but in a highly nervous and irritable state for several years before the separation. Moreover, defendant himself was on the stand in the trial court and testified and while the evidence given by him is not unreasonable, his conduct and demeanor may have suggested to the court symptoms of a shattered mentality which are not in the record before us.

But it is urged no such defense was relied upon in the pleadings and it is therefore not available to defendant for the purpose of defeating plaintiff’s right to a divorce on the charges made by him against h,er. Touching this argument, it is to be said that if the fact that defendant was a nervous,wreck and “not .accountable for his words and actions and charges .against his wife” is a sufficient reason for denying her a divorce on the grounds of such charges, which were not well founded, then it was entirely competent for the court to deny the divorce on that ground though It was not pleaded in the answer.

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