Benschoter v. Benschoter

2017 Ohio 8827
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided November 30, 2017·No. 17-CA-25·Published·Cited by 3 cases

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS

LICKING COUNTY, OHIO

FIFTH APPELLATE DISTRICT

JUDGES:

THOMAS DEAN BENSCHOTER : Hon. W. Scott Gwin, P.J.

: Hon. John W. Wise, J.

Plaintiff-Appellant/Cross-Appellee : Hon. Craig R. Baldwin, J.

:

-vs- :

: Case No. 17-CA-25 LARA JANE BENSCHOTER :

:

Defendant-Appellee/Cross-Appellant : OPINION

CHARACTER OF PROCEEDING: Civil appeal from the Licking County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, Case No. 2015-DR-0877

JUDGMENT: Affirmed in part; Reversed and Remanded in part

DATE OF JUDGMENT ENTRY: November 30, 2017

APPEARANCES: For Plaintiff-Appellant/Cross-Appellee For Defendant-Appellee/Cross-Appellant

KARIN L. COBLE PAUL GIORGIANNI 316 N. MICHIGAN AVENUE 1538 ARLINGTON AVENUE SUITE 600 COLUMBUS, OH 43212-2710 TOLEDO, OH 43604

Licking County, Case No. 17-CA-25 2 Gwin, P.J.,

{¶1} Both Husband and Wife appeal the April 7, 2017 judgment entry of the Licking County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division.

Facts & Procedural History

{¶2} On August 7, 2015, appellant/cross-appellee Thomas Benschoter (“Husband”) filed a complaint for divorce against appellee/cross-appellant Lara Benschoter (“Wife”). The parties were married on June 7, 1997 and have three minor children, K.B., born on January 6, 2000, R.B., born on September 1, 2001, and S.B., born on November 22, 2004.

{¶3} The magistrate issued an ex parte order on August 10, 2015, ordering Husband and Wife to share custody of the children equally. The magistrate held a hearing on August 21, 2015. On August 24, 2015, after interviewing the children, the magistrate vacated the ex parte order and stated he was not convinced of the accuracy of Husband’s description of his involvement and relationship with the children as set forth in his affidavit. The magistrate designated Wife as the residential parent of the children, ordered the children to counseling with any uninsured expense associated with counseling to be paid by Husband, and ordered the parties to propose a parenting time schedule.

{¶4} Wife filed an answer to the complaint and cross-complaint on September 2, 2015. On September 22, 2015, the magistrate issued an order stating he wanted a recommendation from the children’s counselor regarding a temporary parenting schedule and ordered supervised visitation until he received that recommendation. The trial court appointed a guardian ad litem (“GAL”) for the children on October 28, 2015. The magistrate issued an order on November 10, 2015, and declined to change the parenting

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time until he received a report from the GAL. Further, the magistrate ordered that, starting November 2, 2015, Husband was to pay: temporary child support of $1,439 per month, the mortgage on the marital home, real estate taxes on the marital home, insurance on the marital home, utility bills for the marital home, the family cell phones, the minimum payments on Chase and Capital One credit cards, insurance premiums for the family’s vehicles, and health insurance premiums for the family. The magistrate also ordered Husband to reimburse Wife $1,600 for expenses incurred for the children since the filing of the divorce action.

{¶5} Husband filed a motion on November 16, 2015 seeking increased parenting time, a reduction in the amount of child support, and to vacate the order for him to pay the $1,600. The GAL filed a memorandum on November 24, 2015 and he recommended Wife remain the residential parent, but that Husband receive unsupervised visitation. The magistrate held a hearing on February 5, 2016.

{¶6} The magistrate issued an order on February 17, 2016. The magistrate modified the temporary child support amount to $1,480.73, effective November 16, 2015, due to the fact that Husband earned more income in 2015 than indicated on his affidavit filed with his request for temporary orders. The magistrate deferred a decision on the $1,600 until the final divorce hearing. Finally, the magistrate ordered Wife to pay the utility bills for the marital home as of March of 2016.

{¶7} The parties agreed on April 21, 2016 that Husband would have unsupervised Local Rule 19 parenting time with the children and that the children would continue in counseling. Husband filed a motion for contempt on April 29, 2016 for the alleged failure of Wife to have the children attend parenting time and her alleged failure

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to have the children attending counseling. The magistrate held a hearing on the motion on May 31, 2016 and issued an order on June 9, 2016 overruling Husband’s motion for contempt. The magistrate found there was not clear and convincing evidence that Wife engaged in a course of conduct designed to estrange and alienate the children from Husband. Further, that Wife was complying with the court order to not be present during the exchange for Husband’s visitation time and the counselor recommended sessions with the children stop for a while because the sessions were too adversarial.

{¶8} Prior to the hearing on the final divorce, the parties’ filed the following stipulations: both parties’ exhibits shall be admitted without objection as to admissibility for evidentiary purposes; the parties agree the fair market value of the marital home is $208,000; and the parties agree the vocational report (Exhibit 50) shall be admitted into evidence.

{¶9} The trial court held a final hearing of divorce on August 4, 2016 and November 9, 2016. John Benschoter (“John”), Husband’s brother, testified that since Husband filed for divorce, the children will not speak to him. John went once with Husband to pick up the children for visitation and the children would not go with them. John loaned Husband money to help with living expenses.

{¶10} Mark Poole (“Poole”) is the GAL. Poole testified Husband, Wife, and each of the children have undergone individual counseling. Further, there was an attempt to have counseling between Husband and the children, but it was not successful. Poole stated there is no abuse or neglect by either parent. According to Poole, no one has told him that Wife has or has not encouraged a relationship between Husband and the children, but it is Poole’s impression Wife is angry and it has rubbed off on the children.

Poole testified Wife wants the children to make their own decisions and he thinks she has allowed that, but Poole also thinks Wife supports their decision not to see Husband. Poole believes the children are influenced by Wife’s feelings towards Husband and this has contributed to the children’s refusal to meet with Husband.

{¶11} Husband goes to get the children for visitation, but the children will not go with him. Poole testified the children have made it very clear to him that they do not want to go with Husband. Poole describes the children as being “adamant” about that. The police were called once when Husband went to pick the children up for visitation. Poole believes the lack of visitation damages Husband’s relationship with the children.

{¶12} Poole’s recommendation is that Wife remain the residential and custodial parent of the children and Husband have Local Rule 19 visitation. However, as to whether such Local Rule 19 visitation is going to occur, Poole stated, “I, you know, can’t answer that, but I believe he should have the opportunity to at least try to spend time with his children.”

{¶13} On cross-examination, Poole stated his recommendation differs from the wishes of the children, as they do not want to see Husband. Further, that even though he issued his report and recommendation, he also recognizes in his report the children will not attend a visitation with Husband.

{¶14} On re-direct, Poole testified he thinks Husband wants to have a relationship with the children, but Husband needs to understand these are older children who are cognizant of the decisions they are making.

{¶15} Upon examination by the trial court, Poole stated Wife believes the children are old enough to make the decision whether to spend time with Husband. Poole

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