Benjamin Howard Ashby v. Wythe County Department of Social Services

Court of Appeals of Virginia·Decided March 17, 2026·No. 1179253·Unpublished

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges O’Brien, Lorish and Senior Judge Humphreys UNPUBLISHED

BENJAMIN HOWARD ASHBY

MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY

v. Record No. 1179-25-3 JUDGE MARY GRACE O’BRIEN MARCH 17, 2026

WYTHE COUNTY DEPARTMENT

OF SOCIAL SERVICES

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF WYTHE COUNTY Josiah T. Showalter, Jr., Judge

(William R. Kilgore; Kilgore Law, PLLC, on brief), for appellant.

Appellant submitting on brief.

(Katie M. DeCoster; Angi N. Simpkins, Guardian ad litem for the minor child; Sands Anderson, PC; Barbour & Simpkins, LLP, on brief), for appellee. Appellee submitting on brief.

The circuit court found that Benjamin Howard Ashby (appellant) abused or neglected two children, M.A. and B.A.1 As a result, the court entered child protective orders and transferred custody to Melissa Newberry, the children’s maternal grandmother. Seeking reversal, appellant contends that evidence showing M.A. was behaving in a sexualized manner was inadmissible hearsay. For the following reasons, we affirm.

*

This opinion is not designated for publication. See Code § 17.1-413(A).

1

We use initials, instead of names, to protect the privacy of minors. Williams v. Panter, 83 Va. App. 520, 528 n.1 (2025).

Additionally, paternity testing revealed that appellant is not the biological father of B.A., and appellant subsequently withdrew his petition for custody of B.A.

BACKGROUND2

“Under familiar principles, we view the evidence and all reasonable inferences in the light most favorable to the prevailing party below, in this case the Department [of Social Services].” Jenkins v. Winchester Dep’t of Soc. Servs., 12 Va. App. 1178, 1180 (1991). After a juvenile and domestic relations district (JDR) court found that four-year-old M.A. and six- month-old B.A. were abused or neglected by appellant and their mother, the court entered dispositional and child protective orders. Appellant appealed all orders to the circuit court, which held a trial de novo in June 2025.

During that trial, Family Service Specialist Holly Owens testified that the local Department of Social Services (DSS) first received a referral concerning the children in June 2024, when M.A. and B.A. were living with appellant and his girlfriend, Kirsten Davis. Davis had a history of substance abuse, and her contact with her own children was supervised by DSS. As part of the investigation, Owens conducted a urine screen of appellant, who tested positive for alcohol.

At the time, the children often stayed with Angela Ashby (Angela), appellant’s mother.

Owens conducted a home visit with Angela in July 2024 and observed unsafe conditions including loose steps, trash bags “strewn about,” clutter that made it difficult to move through the house, and clothing in the sink. Further, Angela tested positive for methamphetamines and other controlled substances. Appellant reached an agreement with DSS that Angela would only have supervised contact with the children. Owens also instructed appellant and Davis that “until [Davis] could provide a clean drug screen[,] she was not allowed in the home.” Davis never provided a drug screen.

2 The record in this case is sealed. “To the extent that this opinion mentions facts found in the sealed record, we unseal only those specific facts . . . .” Levick v. MacDougall, 294 Va. 283, 288 n.1 (2017). The rest remains sealed. Id.

Owens attempted a home visit with appellant in September 2024, but nobody answered the door. She did, however, observe “women’s undergarments in a laundry basket on the porch,” even though Davis had not produced a clean drug screen. That same day, Owens conducted a second home visit with Angela, who was unsupervised at her residence with the children. The home’s conditions had deteriorated: a step had collapsed, trash was on the floors, clutter only left a narrow path to move, and dirty food containers were “out in the kitchen with gnats.” Owens noted that B.A. had been sleeping in a littered bedroom and “only had a twin mattress on the floor,” and no crib, which she considered unsafe for the then-four-month-old baby.

As a result, the children stayed with their mother under the supervision of Newberry until a September 2024 custody hearing. Following that hearing, the JDR court granted temporary joint legal custody to their mother, appellant, and Newberry, and joint physical custody to appellant and Newberry. The order specified that the children would be with appellant on the weekends, could have no contact with Davis, and could not go to Angela’s home. The court also ordered all involved parties to refrain from using illegal substances and alcohol during and 48 hours before their contact with the children.

In October 2024, DSS received another referral, alleging that appellant and Davis were having sex while M.A. was sitting next to them and B.A. was nearby in his walker. As Owens testified in circuit court, the referral reported that M.A. “had been observed making sexual sounds” and sexual movements. Appellant objected to this testimony on hearsay grounds. The court overruled the objection, stating that “it would not consider the allegations made to [DSS] for their truth.”

Following the referral, Owens interviewed appellant, Davis, M.A., Newberry, and the children’s maternal aunt, Miranda Newberry (the aunt). Owens testified that, while interviewing M.A., “she observed [M.A.] . . . engage in sexualized behavior, including moaning sounds,

licking her lips[,] and getting on the floor on her hands and knees and moving her bottom.” Owens also testified that she “had not at any point during the interview asked [M.A.] to mimic any reported sexualized behavior.” Appellant objected to Owens’s testimony as hearsay because it described M.A.’s “nonverbal conduct intended as an assertion.” The court overruled the objection, stating that witnesses could testify to what they observed.

Owens gave more details about her interview with M.A. in an affidavit3 she submitted to the JDR court in support of the protective orders. In that affidavit, Owens explained that M.A. told her that “her daddy and KK[4] like to play together . . . in the bedroom.” When asked how they “played” together, M.A. made the above-mentioned sounds and movements.

During Owens’s investigation, appellant again tested positive for alcohol. As a result, the JDR court entered preliminary child protective orders in October 2024, requiring appellant’s contact with the children to be supervised by DSS. Appellant did not participate in any visitation until April 2025.

At trial in the circuit court, the aunt testified that, since September 2024, she regularly helped Newberry take care of the children. She explained that she had observed “sexual behavior from [M.A.] in the form of moaning sounds, licking her lips[,] and spreading her legs.” The aunt further testified that “on another occasion after a bath, she observed [M.A.] get on all fours, turn around with legs spread[,] and wiggle her behind.” Again, appellant objected on hearsay grounds, arguing the conduct was intended as an assertion. The court overruled appellant’s hearsay objections to these statements.

3 As stated in the adjudicatory order entered by the circuit court, the court considered the petitions and affidavits submitted in this case in its determinations underlying the order.

4 The record reflects that M.A. called Davis “KK” or “Momma KK.”

According to the aunt, M.A.’s sexualized behavior was always “worse after returning from [appellant]’s care” and M.A. would “exhibit these behaviors multiple times each day for about two days after returning from his care.” Similarly, M.A. also behaved aggressively following visits with appellant, like “hitting the other children in the home.” After appellant discontinued contact with M.A., she “stopped exhibiting these behaviors.”

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