Bemis v. Bemis, No. 31 53 30 (Jun. 9, 1995)

1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 7294
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedJune 9, 1995
DocketNo. 31 53 30
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Bemis v. Bemis, No. 31 53 30 (Jun. 9, 1995), 1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 7294 (Colo. Ct. App. 1995).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION This is a limited contested dissolution of a marriage between the parties which took place on June 10, 1984 at Danbury, Connecticut. The plaintiff's maiden name was Maria Casas. It was the first marriage for the defendant and a second marriage for the plaintiff. No minor children were born to the wife issue of this marriage. The plaintiff had one child, Carmen, born to her of her prior marriage who was adopted by the defendant in 1985. Carmen Bemis has reached the age of majority. The plaintiff has resided continuously in the State of Connecticut for at least twelve (12) months preceding the filing of this action returnable to the court November 17, 1993. The court will enter a dissolution of the parties' marriage on the grounds of irretrievable breakdown.

The plaintiff is forty-three (43) years of age and in good health. The defendant forty-nine (49) and suffers from arthritis, hypertension and high blood pressure. The latter conditions are exacerbated by stress.

The parties met in 1981 commuting into New York City on the train. At the time of the marriage, Ms. Bemis was employed by the New York Times as secretary to the marketing director earning approximately $30,000. Mr. Bemis was employed by Citibank earning approximately $52,000. After the marriage, they both continued to CT Page 7295 commute together from Danbury where they resided with the then minor child, Carmen, in a home which the defendant had purchased prior to the marriage in 1977 for $71,500. In addition to the fully furnished real property, Mr. Bemis had cash and stock of approximately $40,000, two Stobart paintings, one a gift from the plaintiff, and an automobile.

At the time of the marriage, the plaintiff owned New York Times stock worth approximately $21,000; $9,000 from a savings plan with her employment; and IRA's funded by the defendant worth approximately $2,000.

In January of 1987, tired of the long commute to New York City, the plaintiff left her job and matriculated at Western Connecticut in the study of marine biology. She received her bachelor's degree in December of 1989. She had previously received her first bachelor's degree in May of 1984, graduating just prior to the marriage. Ms. Bemis indicated that the defendant was supportive of her decision to leave her job and return to school in 1987, but she later learned that he was somewhat resentful that he had to become the primary support of the whole family. She conceded that these concerns were not unreasonable as Carmen was then still in high school and contemplating college. At the time she terminated her employment with the New York Times, she was earning approximately $35,000.

During the period that she attended Western Connecticut, Ms. Bemis worked twenty (20) hours a week in the laboratory, compensated at approximately $4 per hour, and tutored students at the rate of $5 per hour. After her graduation in 1989, she took a part-time job at G. Fox Co. until April of 1990, when she began to work full-time at U.S. Geological Survey in Hartford, commuting daily from Danbury. In January of 1991, she began graduate school at the University of Rhode Island School of Oceanography. She received a fellowship which covered all of her tuition and educational costs plus $10,000 during the school year and an additional $5,000 in the summer to work. Ms. Bemis received her master's degree in May of 1993. While attending graduate school, she lived in Rhode Island during the week, generally returning to Danbury on Thursday night, and returning to Rhode Island on Monday morning.

The plaintiff has been employed at the University of Rhode Island since September of 1993 as a Marine Research Associate. Her salary was approximately $27,000. In November of 1994, she CT Page 7296 received a promotion and currently earns a base compensation of $31,167. She also receives "sea pay" which had been an additional $1,500 to $2,000 the previous year — based upon thirty (30) days at sea. She estimates that she will be at sea this year for thirty (30) to forty (40) days. She also is entitled to compensatory time. Ms. Bemis resides in a rented apartment in Rhode Island. Since she received her master's degree, the plaintiff has been self-supporting in Rhode Island, and her current income exceeds expenses. She reflects a Master Card debt of $4,100 on her financial affidavit which relates to attorney's fees for this action, and $5,600 which she estimates as the total expenses for Carmen's June wedding, some of which were already paid.

Mr. Bemis commenced his current employment at Marine Midland Bank in October of 1984 at a starting salary of $51,000. Continuing the daily commute between Danbury and New York City, he currently holds the position of vice president of sales and marketing at a base salary of $91,000. His 1994 bonus was $3,500, which was the first bonus he has received in four years. Mr. Bemis has no current liabilities. The expenses reflected on his affidavit slightly exceed his net salary.

The parties had a joint checking account during the marriage, but the plaintiff generally deposited her earnings in a separate account. Family finances were not used to pay for her educational expenses.

Carmen's educational costs were approximately $42,000. The proceeds from the sale of the plaintiff's New York Times stock were used toward this expense.

The defendant covered Carmen on his medical insurance available through his employment through 1994. Now that she is no longer a student, that coverage is not available but he has purchased a separate policy to continue her coverage.

The parties' assets at the time of trial consisted of the following: Merrill Lynch joint cash management account $13,120; 13 John Stobart paintings worth approximately $16,000 to $17,000 before the deduction of any gallery commission; 1,000 shares of UNILAB stock work approximately $4,000; 315 shares of LOTTERY ENT. stock worth approximately $1,300; the husband's 401K plan at Marine Midland Bank worth approximately $71,000; the husband's IRA account at Merrill Lynch worth approximately $53,000; the CT Page 7297 wife's IRA at Merrill Lynch worth approximately $22,000; two Nissan automobiles of approximately equal value; the wife's individual checking and savings accounts worth approximately $1,800; the husband's checking account with a balance of $2,346; the husband's American Can retirement plan which will pay him $136 per month at age sixty-five (65); and the real property located at 34 Ole Musket Lane in Danbury with equity of approximately $180,000.

Mr. Salvatore Pandolfi testified at trial regarding the value of the real property at the time of the marriage. Although he is not a certified appraiser, he is familiar with the El Moro neighborhood where the home is located. He indicated that the houses in El Moro are similar and that there are only three or four basic models. After reviewing information available in 1984 for actual sales similar to the subject property, he gave his estimate as to the value in 1984 of $135,000 plus or minus 5 to 6 percent. As previously indicated in this decision, the house was owned by Mr. Bemis prior to the marriage. Although the plaintiff testified that she had "put a lot of herself" into the home, the evidence presented showed no activities or improvements that would have resulted in any appreciable appreciation in value of the home. Accordingly, the court finds that any increase in value of the home was due primarily to changes in the real estate market.

The trial of this matter was remarkable in that the animosity which usually surfaces in the course of a contested matter was totally absent.

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