B.E. v. J.L.

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedJanuary 16, 2024
DocketA-0481-22
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0481-22

B.E.,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

J.L.,

Defendant-Appellant. _______________________

Submitted October 30, 2023 – Decided January 16, 2024

Before Judges Berdote Byrne and Bishop-Thompson.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Mercer County, Docket No. FV-11-0051-23.

Kalavruzos, Mumola, Hartman, Lento & Duff, LLC, attorneys for appellant (William Les Hartman, on the brief).

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM Defendant appeals from the trial court's entry of a final restraining order

(FRO) against him, finding harassment and criminal mischief, and claims the

trial court erred by: 1) misapplying the Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112

(App. Div. 2006) analysis; 2) denying him the right to cross-examine witnesses;

and 3) ruling plaintiff's mother was a protected third-party. There is substantial

credible evidence that defendant harassed plaintiff, but there is insufficient

evidence in the record to support a finding of criminal mischief or th at a FRO

was necessary to prevent future abuse pursuant to Silver. Moreover, there is

insufficient evidence in the record to support adding plaintiff's mother as a

protected party. Therefore, we vacate the FRO and remand the matter for a new

trial before a different judge. The temporary restraining order (TRO) is

reinstated pending a new final restraining order hearing.

I.

We glean the following facts from the record. The parties dated on and

off for ten years and have a nine-year-old daughter. Beginning in December

2021, defendant began calling and texting plaintiff and her mother "Lynn," 1

from "nine or ten" unknown numbers after plaintiff had blocked defendant's

1 We use initials and pseudonyms to preserve the confidentiality of these proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(10). A-0481-22 2 original number. Plaintiff testified that in those messages defendant wrote "he

wanted to spit on me. He called me all different types of names, I'm a bitch, I'm

a ho – F me, F my family, this and that." In one message, defendant told

plaintiff, "I hope you get raped, bitch."

The record is unclear as to whether plaintiff and the parties' daughter live

with Lynn or were merely at the same home on the dates the alleged harassment

occurred. On Father's Day, June 19, 2022, defendant came to the house in the

evening to pick up his daughter. Defendant testified he had been trying to spend

time with his daughter all weekend, but plaintiff refused to allow visits for

various reasons. When defendant arrived at the house, he called his daughter

and told her to come outside, which she agreed to do. When she did not, he went

to the front door. Plaintiff refused to let their daughter go with defendant

because it was late. A verbal altercation ensued.

After plaintiff shut the door, she testified she heard a "boom" outside.

Plaintiff and Lynn went outside. Lynn was hiding a machete behind her back.

They saw damage to Lynn's car door. Defendant confirmed he threw a lawn

chair in frustration, which he claims inadvertently hit Lynn's car. Plaintiff then

picked up the same chair, threw it at defendant's car, and began arguing with

defendant. Defendant took off his shirt and told Lynn he was "ready to fight"

A-0481-22 3 her until he saw the machete and backed away. Plaintiff testified defendant

picked up a metal pole and threw it at Lynn's windshield, breaking it. Lynn

called the police.

One month later, plaintiff obtained a TRO, and claimed defendant

committed terroristic threats, criminal mischief, and harassment. Both parties

were self-represented at the FRO hearing. The trial court conducted direct

examination of both parties and Lynn, reviewed screenshots of defendant's text

messages to Lynn, and reviewed photos of the damage to Lynn's car.

After hearing plaintiff recount the events, the following colloquy ensued:

[Court]: Are — are you afraid of defendant?

[Plaintiff]: No.

[Court]: You're not? [Plaintiff]: U[h] um. [Court]: So why do you want the restraining order against him?

[Plaintiff]: Because he kept harassing me. I don't want nothing to do with him. I don't want to talk to him, I don't want to see him, I don't [want] nothing. The trial court probed further:

[Court]: Did defendant ever destroy anything like he did your mother's car before[? S]mashed things?

A-0481-22 4 The trial court heard extensive testimony from Lynn and asked her to

describe what happened on June 19, 2022. She testified to receiving verbally

abusive messages from defendant and provided the court with several pages of

screenshots of these messages, which the trial court admitted into evidence and

read into the record.

The trial court then returned to questioning plaintiff, asking again why she

wanted a restraining order.

[Court]: You have to tell the court why you think you need a restraining order.

[Plaintiff]: Well, you see, I don't want him harassing me no more. I don't want [him] texting me anymore cause . . . it's just getting annoying. . . . I don't want to deal with him ever again, to be honest. . . . And I don't want him coming to my house starting trouble anymore.

Defendant's direct examination largely corroborated the narrative plaintiff

and Lynn provided in their testimony. However, defendant framed the incident

within larger difficulties the parties were experiencing regarding parenting time.

Nevertheless, defendant admitted he sent plaintiff messages calling her

"retarded" because she was a high school drop-out, and it was "the only thing I

could say to her to get her upset. Nothing else ever works."

The trial court made credibility determinations, stating:

A-0481-22 5 I believe that the two of you are very troubled in terms of your relationship over your child. Okay? And you have yet to make decisions together since you've broken up about how it is that one person versus the other is going to pick up, drop off, have time, not have time, who's in charge, and clearly there is a power struggle going on between the two of you . . . .

That being said, . . . a dispute between two parties over how to handle children is not sufficient for there to be a predicate act of . . . harassment. But — but I think there was harassment in this case. . . .

[Plaintiff] recollected the events that night accurately and with detail. She did not embellish. She looked me in the eye when she was speaking. Her testimony was reasonable. She didn't try to hide the fact that her mother pulled out the machete, you know. She kept her back straight, didn't make stories up or try to make up excuses or joke about the other party. She had great candor[,] and she did not evade my questions. She was not reluctant to answer my questions. She . . . was inherently believable in her testimony. The one thing that I didn't believe her on was the fact that she's not afraid.

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