B.C. v. A.A

143 So. 3d 198
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedAugust 2, 2013
Docket2111247 and 2120407
StatusPublished
Cited by9 cases

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Bluebook
B.C. v. A.A, 143 So. 3d 198 (Ala. Ct. App. 2013).

Opinions

THOMAS, Judge.

In 2006, B.C. (“the mother”) consented to a judgment of the Jackson Juvenile Court placing A.B. and A.M. (“the children”) in the custody of M.A. and A.A., the children’s maternal great-aunt and her husband (referred to collectively as “the custodians”).1 R.H.M. and H.R.M., the maternal great-uncle and his wife (referred to collectively as “the noncustodial relatives”), were awarded visitation with the children every Thursday from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. and alternating weekends from Friday at 5:00 p.m. to Sunday at 8:00 a.m. The record does not indicate the spe[200]*200cific visitation rights afforded the mother; however, M.A. testified that “it’s in the papers that she can come and visit.”

In April 2011, the custodians sought to adopt the children. To that end, they filed petitions seeking the termination of the parental rights of the mother to the children in the DeKalb Juvenile Court.2 Those petitions also sought the termination of the visitation rights awarded to the noncustodial relatives. The mother answered the petitions and filed separate petitions seeking custody of the children. The noncustodial relatives filed a petition to intervene and a complaint in intervention in each action, seeking custody of the children or, at least, a continuation of their visitation rights. The juvenile court permitted the noncustodial relatives to intervene; it also consolidated the actions for trial.

After several continuances, the actions were tried on August 14, 2012. M.A. testified that the mother had not consistently visited the children after late 2008, when the mother had resumed her relationship with the father of one of the children, who, the custodians believed, had abused the older child. M.A. characterized the change in the relationship between the mother and the custodians as being like “we became the enemy” and said that it had become more of a battle between the mother and M.A. instead of a cooperative relationship to benefit the children. M.A. further testified that the mother had not paid child support or provided financial support for the children until the custodians sought a child-support order; M.A. testified that the mother had not been current on her child-support payments at the time the termination petitions were filed, but she admitted that the mother might have been current on her payments at the time of trial.

M.A. testified that she and A.A. were seeking to adopt the children to provide them stability. She said that the children would be entering the second and fourth grades and that the younger child made “straight A’s” and that the older child made “A’s” and one “B” the previous school year. Although the children were performing well academically, she said that it was difficult for the children to “go back and forth” in a situation where they were being told “negative, negative, negative.” According to M.A., the noncustodial relatives would make disparaging comments about the custodians to the children. She admitted, however, that she might have made disparaging comments about the noncustodial relatives and about the mother and that, at times, she had questioned the children about what was said and done when they visited the noncustodial relatives. M.A. admitted that that behavior had been inappropriate and stated that she had discontinued the practice. She described the children’s lives as being a “roller coaster ride.” M.A. denied that she wanted to “completely wipe the mother from the children’s lives”; however, the petitions for termination of parental rights stated that the custodians “realize that ... the mother will be giving up any and all benefits of a relationship with the minor child[ren] and [she] will never be entitled to any visitation with the minor child[ren], nor participate any further in [their] li[ves].”

Regarding the request that the noncustodial relatives’ visitation rights be terminated, M.A. explained that the visitation rights granted under the 2006 judgment had begun presenting difficulties for the custodians and the children. M.A. said that the Thursday visitations, which were exercised from after school until 8:00 p.m. [201]*201on Thursdays during the school year, prevented the children from being involved in extracurricular activities because they could not attend Thursday practices. She also noted that alternate-weekend visits would interfere with activities that might require the children to participate on the weekends. According to M.A., the communication between the custodians and the noncustodial relatives was nonexistent. She explained that it would not be possible to “set up anything” regarding transportation to practices or attendance at activities because of the lack of meaningful communication between the parties. M.A. also testified that the children acted differently when they returned from visitation; she commented that the older child was more aggressive toward the younger child and complained that she had been treated differently by the noncustodial relatives, while the younger child cried “a lot” more. M.A. further testified that she had heard that the noncustodial relatives had told the children that the custodians were not Christians and that they were “demon possessed”; she also said that the noncustodial relatives had tried to prevent the custodians from receiving a “ministry license.” However, although she testified that she was concerned about the children’s emotional health because they were required to “go back and forth,” M.A. said that she had no real concerns regarding the children’s safety when they were visiting with the noncustodial relatives.

A.A. testified that he works in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Like M.A., he testified that he had no intention of cutting the mother out of the children’s lives completely; he said that she could still visit even after her parental rights were terminated. He also said that he had no desire to end all visits with the noncustodial relatives either; he stated that he would like to be able to use “common sense” when determining when the noncustodial relatives could visit. He said that the mother and the noncustodial relatives were family and that “you can’t take someone out of someone else’s life completely and entirely without there being devastation. That would be horrible.” Like M.A., he did note, however, that the children’s behavior changed after visitation with the noncustodial relatives; he said that teachers had reported that the children’s behavior changed on Fridays. A.A. also testified that the older child had reported being called a “GD little B” at a visit. He admitted that the parties needed to improve their relationship and their communication. He explained that it would take effort from all parties to effectively do so.

R.H.M. testified that he and H.R.M. were awarded visitation in the 2006 judgment. He said that, although the communication between the parties was nonexistent at first, it had improved for a few years. However, he explained, when a dispute arose over the custodians refusing to allow the children to visit at Christmas, despite the fact that Christmas fell on a visitation weekend, he told the custodians that he did not like how he and H.R.M. were being treated. He said that M.A. became upset after that discussion and that the communication between the parties disintegrated. R.H.M. admitted that he had, at times, made disparaging statements about the custodians in the presence of the children and that he had also sometimes inquired of the children what was being said and done at the custodians’ home; however, he testified that he and H.R.M.

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