Bailey v. Bailey

244 S.W.3d 712, 97 Ark. App. 96, 2006 Ark. App. LEXIS 863
CourtCourt of Appeals of Arkansas
DecidedDecember 6, 2006
DocketCA 06-660
StatusPublished
Cited by9 cases

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Bailey v. Bailey, 244 S.W.3d 712, 97 Ark. App. 96, 2006 Ark. App. LEXIS 863 (Ark. Ct. App. 2006).

Opinion

Sam Bird, Judge.

Tina Bailey brings this appeal from a decree of the Faulkner County Circuit Court filed on March 15, 2006, which granted her a divorce from Mark Bailey and ordered the parties to share joint custody of their two minor children. Appellant contends that the trial court abused its discretion by awarding joint custody, by failing to award sufficient alimony to her, and by dividing the marital debt equally. We reverse and remand on all points.

Joint Custody

Joint custody or equally divided custody of minor children is disfavored in Arkansas; however, Ark. Code Ann. § 9-13-101 (b)(1) (A) (ii) as amended in 2003 specifically permits the court to consider such an award. Dansby v. Dansby, 87 Ark. App. 156, 189 S.W.3d 473 (2004). Equally divided custody of minor children may be ordered where the circumstances clearly warrant it; if it is shown that the interest of the child is better fostered by divided custody, we have held that this is a proper order for a court to make. Hansen v. Hansen, 11 Ark. App. 104, 666 S.W.2d 726 (1984). A crucial factor bearing on the propriety of joint custody is the parties’ mutual ability to cooperate in reaching shared decisions in matters affecting the child’s welfare. Dansby, supra.

Our law is well settled that the primary consideration in child custody is the child’s best interest at the time of the final hearing as demonstrated by the record. Hobbs v. Hobbs, 75 Ark. App. 186, 55 S.W.3d 331 (2001). The time for parties to demonstrate the mutual ability to cooperate in reaching shared decisions in matters affecting a child’s welfare so as to justify an award of joint custody is before and at the hearing that is the basis of the joint-custody award, not some later time in an unknown future based on unproven facts. Id.

Here, stating that its decision was not easy, the court ruled from the bench that both parents were fit to have custody but that it would grant the joint custody requested by appellee. The court observed, “I think they can work together now that the financial strains aren’t there as much.” Appellant contends that the parties are not able to communicate or to reach shared decisions regarding what is best for the minor children.

Appellant testified that she had agreed to temporary joint custody of “one week on and one week off’ because appellee wanted it desperately and she did not want to keep him from the children, but she stated that the joint custody had not worked. She agreed that the boys were doing well in school although the younger son’s behavior had gotten worse in the last year. She said that the boys had a good relationship with appellee, that she did not mind his seeing them whenever he wanted to, but that she did not want the boys moved physically from one house to another.

Appellant asserts that appellee has undermined her role as a parent by a pattern of manipulation, as exemplified in the following instances to which she testified. Appellee purchased a dirt bike for one son despite appellant’s voicing to appellee her preference that it not be bought and despite her safety concerns. Appellee did not discuss two trips with her prior to planning them, each of which included days that were scheduled to be hers with the boys: she found out from the boys about a ski trip to Canada, and appellee announced upon returning from the six-day ski trip that he was taking the boys duck hunting the next weekend. Appellant appeared at the younger boy’s classroom for his school Christmas party, as had been previously planned, only to find out from his teacher that he had been checked out by appellee: appellant kept calling appellee until she found out that the two of them were in Little Rock, shopping for Christmas. Appellant also testified that the parties did not agree on the boys’ discipline: she said that her method began with talking to them and administering punishment according to the seriousness of what had been done, while appellee “gets to the boiling point, . . .just blows up at them,” and once hit the younger son in the head with the barrel of a paint-ball gun for failing to clean up his room.

Appellant also argues that appellee is of the mind-set that he is the authoritative figure, with appellant to be submissive and subjective to him, and that joint custody enables him to control his ex-wife. Appellee testified regarding a list he had written in preparation for counseling issues. The list and his testimony reflect his belief that, in the biblical sense, the wife should be submissive and subjective to her husband’s wishes and authority. Appellee stated that God created man to be the leader of the house and to establish the environment so that a woman would want to be submissive, that a husband and wife were equals in terms of making decisions about their children, and that appellant would no longer have to be submissive after divorce because she no longer would be his wife. He testified that he disagreed that he and appellant could not get along as husband as wife, and he said that they were divorcing because she wanted the divorce. He said that they had been able to communicate in terms of their temporary agreement of each having the boys for a week, but that appellant failed to extend parental courtesy to him in not telling him about the younger son going to his heart doctor for a checkup and in not consulting him about the older going to First Baptist youth group on Wednesday nights.

Asking the trial court to award joint custody, appellee stated that the temporary custody had gotten into a decently normal routine with flexibility about visitation; he stated that he was extremely concerned that appellant might choose to relocate geographically if he did not share custody with her. He said that, shortly before the hearing, he had gone to the house when appellant contacted him about the younger son’s stubbornness in not wanting to go to a basketball practice; appellee finally took him and worked with him at practice. He said that on other occasions, “I just [had] to reign in as the father because I’m the father figure. That’s the way the good Lord made the father is to be the ultimate authority in the house. ... So there are times when I’ve had to intervene at her request, and I don’t mind doing that.”

The appellate court does not disturb a circuit court’s findings unless they are clearly against a preponderance of the evidence, giving due regard to the opportunity of the court to judge the credibility of the witnesses. Hansen, supra. In cases involving child custody a heavier burden is cast upon the circuit court to utilize to the fullest extent all of its powers of perception in evaluating the witnesses, their testimony and the children’s best interest. Id. This court has no such opportunity and we know of no case in which the superior position, ability and opportunity of a circuit court to observe the parties carries as great a weight as one involving minor children. Id.

We do not depart from these well established tenets.

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