Aylicia D. Mickow v. Cody F. Mickow

Missouri Court of Appeals·Decided December 24, 2024·No. ED111927·Published

Opinion

In the Missouri Court of Appeals Eastern District

DIVISION ONE

AYLICIA D. MICKOW, ) No. ED111927 )

Appellant, ) Appeal from the Circuit Court of ) Franklin County

vs. ) 20AB-DR00256 )

CODY F. MICKOW, ) Honorable Joseph W. Purschke )

Respondent. ) Filed: December 24, 2024

Before James M. Dowd, P.J., Angela T. Quigless, J., and Cristian M. Stevens, J.

OPINION

Aylicia Mickow (Wife) appeals the trial court’s May 2023 judgment dissolving her marriage to Cody Mickow (Husband) in which the court ordered joint legal and joint physical custody of their two minor children and then divided the parties’ marital property. As specifically relevant to this appeal, the court valued at $270,000 the parties’ property located at 670 Crestview Drive, where Husband resided, and valued at $80,000 their property located at 505 Blair Street, where Wife resided. 1 The court ordered Wife to convey to Husband via quit- claim deed her interest in the Crestview property and Husband to convey to Wife his interest in the Blair Street property. 2

1 Both properties are located in the city of Sullivan, Franklin County, Missouri. 2 The court made other findings not relevant here, including regarding child support, health insurance, taxes, maintenance, attorneys’ fees, and the division of other marital property.

On appeal, Wife first claims that in its child custody determination, the trial court erroneously failed to address all of section 452.375.2’s 3 relevant, best-interest-of-the-child factors as required by section 452.375.6. Next, Wife claims the custody order is against the weight of the evidence. Lastly, Wife asserts the trial court’s valuations of the parties’ properties were inaccurate and unsubstantiated by the record.

We affirm because (1) the court’s judgment addressed all the relevant, best-interest-of-

the-child statutory factors, (2) the joint custody order is not against the weight of the evidence, and (3) the values the trial court assigned to the parties’ two properties at issue are supported by the record and well within the court’s broad discretion to divide marital assets.

Background

Husband and Wife married on September 10, 2016, in Franklin County, Missouri. The parties have two minor children together, a daughter and a son. On June 17, 2020, Wife filed her petition for dissolution.4 Trial began on September 12, 2022, and spread over two more days – November 28 and December 9.

Testimony Relevant to Custody Wife testified that Husband was physically and verbally abusive and that his alcohol use fueled the abuse. Wife testified that when Husband drank alcohol, he became angry and destructive. She recalled an incident in which he held her by the throat pinning her against a wall. In another incident, Husband pinned her against a couch and punched her in the mouth busting her lip. But in interrogatory answers, Wife denied he abused her.

3 All statutory references are to Revised Statutes of Missouri (2016) unless otherwise stated. 4 Wife initially filed her dissolution petition in May 2019. When the parties briefly reconciled, Wife dismissed that action. Wife’s initial filing is not relevant here.

After Wife moved out of their Crestview home in 2020, she agreed to Husband having visitation with the children on Wednesdays and every other weekend. Wife found the arrangement satisfactory for her and the children. Wife resisted Husband’s request for more time because he failed to adhere adequately to the children’s extracurricular and summer school commitments and allowed them too much time in front of television, computer, and phone screens. Wife claimed their son had difficulty readjusting upon returning from Husband’s custody and that Husband discouraged the children from speaking with Wife on the phone.

Wife conceded that Husband and the children love each other and that the communication between Wife and Husband was poor. However, she disagreed that an alternating-week schedule was in the best interests of the children because Husband provided them inadequate “structure.” Specifically, Wife claimed the children often missed school when in Husband’s custody and their son often missed his weekly speech therapy. Wife conceded, however, that at times she failed to inform Husband of certain school-related or medical appointments.

For his part, Husband denied ever hitting Wife and denied an alcohol abuse problem. For two months during the pendency of this case, Husband wore an alcohol detector that recorded no alcohol use. Husband claimed he did not imbibe in the children’s presence and no longer drove after drinking alcohol. His last of three DWIs was ten years ago and a breathalyzer in his car prevented him from driving if intoxicated. Husband also testified that he never hit his children, spanked them, left them unsupervised, or put them in harm’s way. He testified that he loves his children, and is involved in their school work, extracurricular activities, and any medical needs including their son’s speech therapy.

The court also heard the testimony from several witnesses regarding their experiences with Husband and Wife and their opinions of them as parents including a former neighbor, Husband’s brother, Wife’s maternal aunt, and Wife’s first child’s paternal grandmother. Husband’s brother and Wife’s aunt both testified that they saw Wife physically abuse the parties’ youngest child and that they believed Husband was a great father. The grandmother, for her part, testified that Wife was a great mother and that she witnessed marks on Wife on two occasions which she believed Husband caused. Finally, the neighbor testified that although he saw both parties drink, he never saw either “belligerently drunk.” He described Husband as a good father whom the children loved. He stated that Husband was smart, fun, social, honest, generous, and “overall a good person.”

Lastly, the guardian ad litem testified that he had “no doubt” that both parties love their children and want what is best for them. He opined they were both fit to ensure the children were physically safe. However, he believed both parties persistently communicated poorly, that both parties weaponized their situations against each other, and that both are “selfish.” The GAL was skeptical that they would ever put aside their differences to co-parent peacefully and was concerned that their conduct negatively affected the children. Nevertheless, the GAL recommended joint legal custody and joint physical custody with an alternating-week schedule. He recommended the parties continue to communicate through the TalkingParents phone application in order to document any future issues between them.

Testimony Relevant to Parties’ Marital Real Estate Wife’s expert, a licensed realtor, testified that she compiled a comparative market analysis on the Crestview property. Expert estimated the property’s value at between $315,000.00 and $325,000.00. However, Expert did not conduct an in-person visit to the

property, and her analysis was not a formal appraisal. Expert admitted she was Wife’s current boyfriend’s sister, but denied any bias because providing a biased and incorrect opinion would jeopardize her real estate license.

In its judgment, the court was “not fully persuaded” by Expert’s valuation testimony because she did not visit the property to inspect the interior and because of her potential bias. Moreover, the $215,000 value Wife gave the property in her property statement to the court, a value with which Husband agreed, undermined Expert’s higher value. The court also rejected the $215,000 since the parties had bought the home for $225,000 in November 2019 and Expert acknowledged that property values had risen in the area. Instead, the court valued the Crestview property at $270,000.

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