Audra Jane Acchione v. Geoffrey Lawrence Acchione

Court of Appeals of Virginia·Decided August 22, 2006·No. 2401054·Unpublished

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges Clements, Haley and Senior Judge Annunziata Argued at Alexandria, Virginia

AUDRA JANE ACCHIONE MEMORANDUM OPINION* BY

v. Record No. 2401-05-4 JUDGE JEAN HARRISON CLEMENTS AUGUST 22, 2006

GEOFFREY LAWRENCE ACCHIONE

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF FAIRFAX COUNTY Arthur B. Vieregg, Jr., Judge

Mark B. Sandground, Sr. (Sandground New & Lowinger, P.C., on brief), for appellant.

Susan Leslie-Fraser (The DARA Law Group, P.C., on brief), for appellee.

Audra Jane Acchione (mother) appeals from an order of the trial court awarding primary physical custody of the parties’ two minor children to Geoffrey Lawrence Acchione (father). On appeal, she contends (1) the evidence was insufficient to support the award of custody, (2) the trial court abused its discretion by failing to consider all of the factors of Code § 20-124.3, and (3) the trial court abused its discretion by assuming facts not in evidence. For the reasons that follow, we affirm the judgment of the trial court.

As the parties are fully conversant with the record in this case, and because this memorandum opinion carries no precedential value, this opinion recites only those facts and incidents of the proceedings as are necessary to the parties’ understanding of the disposition of this appeal.

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Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication.

I. BACKGROUND

The parties were married on October 28, 1995. Two children were born of the marriage, a son, R., on April 30, 1997, and a daughter, A., on June 23, 2000. On August 24, 2004, the parties separated. Mother instituted a suit for divorce, and the contest for custody over the children ensued. On September 13, 2004, the trial court entered a pendente lite order awarding the parties joint legal and physical custody of both children and granting mother exclusive use of the marital residence. R. and A. were to reside with mother at the marital residence during the week and with father at his residence on weekends. On July 19, 2005, a two-day custody hearing commenced before the trial court, at which time the parties presented their evidence. “[W]e summarize th[at] evidence in the light most favorable to the prevailing party below.” Brown v. Brown, 30 Va. App. 532, 535, 518 S.E.2d 336, 337 (1999).

So summarized, the evidence established the following relevant facts. R. is eight years old.

Following the parties’ separation, he began to have difficulty controlling his anger and emotions. For example, he became “belligerent,” “disrespectful,” and “disruptive” toward authority figures, threw tantrums, and destroyed personal property (a DVD player) not belonging to him. A. is five years old. She suffers from neither mental nor physical difficulties. Although A. demonstrated separation anxiety after the parties’ separation, her insecurities diminished in the months that followed.

Father is 42 years old, mentally and physically healthy, and employed full-time during the week. Although he had difficulty maintaining employment during the marriage due to numerous labor force reductions, he consistently retained new employment following these reductions. Father drinks on a daily basis and frequently does so in front of the children. No evidence was presented, however, to demonstrate that he suffers from alcoholism or that his drinking has negatively impacted his employment or parenting abilities.

Mother is 37 years old, physically healthy, and employed part-time on weekends. She maintained such employment steadily throughout the marriage. Although she suffers from no mental illness, she has demonstrated conduct that is explosive, impulsive, and self-focused.

The evidence provides numerous examples of such conduct. For instance, on the July 4, 2004 weekend, the parties were involved in a marital dispute. During the dispute, mother repeatedly smashed father’s vehicle with a wrench in the presence of R. and A. Father testified to this incident. In a later incident, on August 22, 2004, mother began screaming, kicking furniture, throwing objects around, and verbally assailing father’s parents when they declined to leave the marital residence upon her demand. Georgia Acchione, father’s mother, and Nichole Acchione, his sister-in-law, testified to this incident.

Father provided additional examples of wife’s unseemly conduct. Following the July 4, 2004 incident, father initiated marital counseling for the parties. Mother attended the counseling, but declined to constructively participate, stating to him, “We don’t need counseling. This is your problem.” Furthermore, mother threatened “hundreds of times” over a “number of years” to divorce father and run away with the parties’ children. She uttered these threats when she did not get her way. For instance, she threatened to run away with the children when father refused to place ceiling fans in every room of the marital residence upon her demand. On August 22, 2004, she carried out her threats. Following the dispute that day, mother placed R. and A. in her vehicle and drove to New York. Father did not see the children for three weeks.

Chelsea R. Mahon, a lifeguard, testified that mother came to her swimming pool with the parties’ children for R.’s diving meets. During one particular meet, R. was diving from one end of the pool and A. was playing in the other end. As mother watched R. dive, A. fell from her play toy in the pool and began to drift under the water. Chelsea dove into the water to rescue her. After she

rescued A., mother, who was upset, stated in a non-jesting tone, “If she drowns I won’t sue.” Chelsea testified that this incident constituted the third such rescue of A. while mother was present.

Mother was the primary caretaker of the children during the week and provided parental services necessary for their rearing. She fed, clothed, and groomed the children, attended to their medical needs, and provided transportation to and enrollment in school and extracurricular activities. She also volunteered at the children’s schools and actively participated in their academic and social lives. On weekends, father cared for the children. He, too, provided primary parental services, assisted the children with their academics and social activities, and participated therein.

Father related exceptionally well to the children. For example, he regularly engaged in playtime with the children, read them bedtime stories, and participated in activities that were of their particular interest, such as playing video games with R. and drawing with A. Cynthia McDermott, father’s sister, testified to this relationship and explained that mother did not relate to the children in this way. Father was also attentive to R.’s weight problem and assisted him with weight loss by going for bike rides with him, playing at parks with him, and feeding him non-junk foods.

Each party hired and provided testimony from a psychological expert, and each expert bolstered the parental abilities and fitness of the hiring party. The evidence demonstrated, however, that father was a more calming and patient disciplinarian with the children. Nichole Acchione testified that father showed follow through with his discipline and was able to calm R. down during his tantrums, which was an “art in itself.” She testified that she had once observed mother discipline R. by screaming loudly at him.

R.’s participation in extracurricular activities highlights mother’s unilateral decision-making regarding the children. Without consulting father, she enrolled R. in numerous extracurricular activities, which met as often as three to four nights per week. She enrolled him in activities that met when he resided with father. She also enrolled R. in summer camp without discussing the

matter with father. Father protested R.’s participation in numerous extracurricular activities, especially wrestling. He explained that wrestling would contribute to R.’s aggressive conduct and emotional difficulties.

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