COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA
Present: Judges Atlee, Causey and Senior Judge Haley UNPUBLISHED
ASHLEY STONE COUSINS MEMORANDUM OPINION * v. Record No. 1225-21-2 PER CURIAM MAY 3, 2022 JOHN WILLIAM BRANDT AND BEVERLEY ANNE BRANDT
FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE CITY OF COLONIAL HEIGHTS Edward A. Robbins, Jr., Judge
(Cecilie B. Hamilton, on brief), for appellant. Appellant submitting on brief.
No brief or argument for appellees.
Ashley Stone Cousins (“mother”) appeals a final order of adoption. Mother argues that the
circuit court erred in concluding that her consent to adoption was unreasonably withheld. Upon
reviewing the record and appellant’s brief, we conclude that the circuit court did not err.
Accordingly, we affirm the decision of the circuit court.
BACKGROUND 1
“Because the circuit court heard evidence ore tenus, its factual findings are ‘entitled to the
same weight accorded a jury verdict[] and . . . will not be disturbed on appeal unless plainly wrong
or without evidence to support’ them.” Geouge v. Traylor, 68 Va. App. 343, 347 (2017) (quoting
* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. 1 The record in this case was sealed. The appeal necessitates unsealing relevant portions of the record to resolve the issues mother has raised. Evidence and factual findings below that are necessary to address the assignments of error are included in this opinion. Consequently, “[t]o the extent that this opinion mentions facts found in the sealed record, we unseal only those specific facts, finding them relevant to the decision in this case. The remainder of the previously sealed record remains sealed.” Levick v. MacDougall, 294 Va. 283, 288 n.1 (2017). Bristol Dep’t of Soc. Servs. v. Welch, 64 Va. App. 34, 44 (2014)). We recite the evidence in the
light most favorable to appellees, John Brandt and Beverley Brandt (“grandparents”), as they
prevailed in the circuit court. Id. In addition, “[u]nder basic principles of appellate review, we may
not go beyond the record developed in the trial court.” Boyd v. Cty. of Henrico, 42 Va. App. 495,
505 n.4 (2004) (en banc).
Mother is the biological mother to the child who was the subject of the adoption
proceedings. Grandparents are the paternal grandparents to the child. Their son, Jesse Lee Cousins
(“father”), is the biological father of the child.
The child was born in 2010. Grandparents have been in the child’s life since the child was
born and have always had a “good relationship” with the child. Mother was the “primary parent”
following the child’s birth. Father worked long hours. Mother and father raised the child together
until they had a “nasty break up” and divorced in 2014. Father obtained a protective order against
mother. Father was granted custody of the child. He and the child moved in with grandparents
when the child was four years old. Grandparents became the child’s primary caretakers, as father
continued working long hours.
Initially, mother saw the child “at least every weekend,” but the visits lessened once mother
entered a new romantic relationship. The child wore a GPS device during these visitations, a
requirement agreed upon by mother and father during their divorce proceedings. Mother would text
father “periodically” to arrange for visits with the child, some of which would end with mother and
father arguing. With father’s permission, mother purchased the child a Kindle Fire tablet in 2019 to
maintain communication with the child. Father decided when the child could communicate with
mother on the device, although mother never had a video chat with the child on the tablet.
Grandparents subsequently purchased a cell phone for the child, so they could contact each other in
-2- case of emergency. Mother attempted to contact the child via social media and text message.2
Grandparents asked mother not to contact the child on his cell phone and explained that if mother
wanted to talk with the child, she had to contact him through his father or them.
Father died from a heart attack in February 2020. Grandparents texted mother to inform her
of the death, but they did not receive a response. Mother contacted grandparents through social
media after she learned about father’s death on Facebook; she provided grandparents with her new
address and telephone number. Grandparents took the child to counseling following father’s death
“to make sure he was adjusting.” Mother “was going to try to pick [the child] up” but didn’t want to
“uproot” or “traumatize” him. In the time leading up to father’s death, mother saw the child at least
once a year.
Following father’s death, grandparents met with mother to inform her that they were filing
for emergency custody of the child. Mother attended the initial hearing at the City of Colonial
Heights Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court (“the JDR court”) in June 2020. The JDR
court ordered that mother could visit with the child every third Sunday from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m.
Mother arrived at the first visitation at grandparents’ home, but only stayed for one hour due to
disagreements between mother and grandparents. Mother did not attend any other scheduled
visitations and did not contact grandparents explaining her absence. The JDR court granted full
custody of the child to grandparents. Mother did not attend the hearing, and the JDR court did not
order visitation for mother.
Mother had no further interaction with the child. In August 2020, grandparents petitioned
the circuit court for adoption of the child. Thereafter, mother contacted grandparents once and
asked to visit the child during Christmas 2020. On the advice of counsel, grandparents declined
mother’s request and informed mother that “it wasn’t in the best interest of the child” to visit during
2 Grandparents considered mother’s social media posts inappropriate for the child. -3- Christmas. Outside of this one instance, grandparents had never denied mother access to the child.
Other than mother’s contact at Christmas, from June 2020 until the time of the circuit court hearing,
mother did not visit the child.
At the hearing, mother expressed her opposition to the adoption but acknowledged that she
was not in a position to take custody of the child. Mother testified that she is also the parent to a
daughter, born in 2019, who, at the time of trial, was living with her maternal grandmother.
Mother’s daughter was removed from her custody after a court found that there was drug
paraphernalia in mother’s home and drug use in front of mother’s daughter. Mother was
incarcerated at the time of the circuit court hearing and admitted that she had “been a drug addict
on-and-off.” Mother testified that she had been “on-and-off in recovery” and had faced a number of
criminal charges. Mother stated that she was “a binge user” and would have “a weekend binge
every few months.” Mother claimed she was “trying to rehabilitate [her] life and focus on moving
forward with both [her] children.”
Grandparents testified that they had been very engaged in the child’s life, including the
child’s schooling and sporting events. Mother had never attended any school events and had
attended only one sports game. The child was active in church, had many friends, and was doing
very well in school. Grandparents testified that they provided the child a stable home, were
financially capable of meeting the child’s needs, including private school tuition and health
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COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA
Present: Judges Atlee, Causey and Senior Judge Haley UNPUBLISHED
ASHLEY STONE COUSINS MEMORANDUM OPINION * v. Record No. 1225-21-2 PER CURIAM MAY 3, 2022 JOHN WILLIAM BRANDT AND BEVERLEY ANNE BRANDT
FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE CITY OF COLONIAL HEIGHTS Edward A. Robbins, Jr., Judge
(Cecilie B. Hamilton, on brief), for appellant. Appellant submitting on brief.
No brief or argument for appellees.
Ashley Stone Cousins (“mother”) appeals a final order of adoption. Mother argues that the
circuit court erred in concluding that her consent to adoption was unreasonably withheld. Upon
reviewing the record and appellant’s brief, we conclude that the circuit court did not err.
Accordingly, we affirm the decision of the circuit court.
BACKGROUND 1
“Because the circuit court heard evidence ore tenus, its factual findings are ‘entitled to the
same weight accorded a jury verdict[] and . . . will not be disturbed on appeal unless plainly wrong
or without evidence to support’ them.” Geouge v. Traylor, 68 Va. App. 343, 347 (2017) (quoting
* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. 1 The record in this case was sealed. The appeal necessitates unsealing relevant portions of the record to resolve the issues mother has raised. Evidence and factual findings below that are necessary to address the assignments of error are included in this opinion. Consequently, “[t]o the extent that this opinion mentions facts found in the sealed record, we unseal only those specific facts, finding them relevant to the decision in this case. The remainder of the previously sealed record remains sealed.” Levick v. MacDougall, 294 Va. 283, 288 n.1 (2017). Bristol Dep’t of Soc. Servs. v. Welch, 64 Va. App. 34, 44 (2014)). We recite the evidence in the
light most favorable to appellees, John Brandt and Beverley Brandt (“grandparents”), as they
prevailed in the circuit court. Id. In addition, “[u]nder basic principles of appellate review, we may
not go beyond the record developed in the trial court.” Boyd v. Cty. of Henrico, 42 Va. App. 495,
505 n.4 (2004) (en banc).
Mother is the biological mother to the child who was the subject of the adoption
proceedings. Grandparents are the paternal grandparents to the child. Their son, Jesse Lee Cousins
(“father”), is the biological father of the child.
The child was born in 2010. Grandparents have been in the child’s life since the child was
born and have always had a “good relationship” with the child. Mother was the “primary parent”
following the child’s birth. Father worked long hours. Mother and father raised the child together
until they had a “nasty break up” and divorced in 2014. Father obtained a protective order against
mother. Father was granted custody of the child. He and the child moved in with grandparents
when the child was four years old. Grandparents became the child’s primary caretakers, as father
continued working long hours.
Initially, mother saw the child “at least every weekend,” but the visits lessened once mother
entered a new romantic relationship. The child wore a GPS device during these visitations, a
requirement agreed upon by mother and father during their divorce proceedings. Mother would text
father “periodically” to arrange for visits with the child, some of which would end with mother and
father arguing. With father’s permission, mother purchased the child a Kindle Fire tablet in 2019 to
maintain communication with the child. Father decided when the child could communicate with
mother on the device, although mother never had a video chat with the child on the tablet.
Grandparents subsequently purchased a cell phone for the child, so they could contact each other in
-2- case of emergency. Mother attempted to contact the child via social media and text message.2
Grandparents asked mother not to contact the child on his cell phone and explained that if mother
wanted to talk with the child, she had to contact him through his father or them.
Father died from a heart attack in February 2020. Grandparents texted mother to inform her
of the death, but they did not receive a response. Mother contacted grandparents through social
media after she learned about father’s death on Facebook; she provided grandparents with her new
address and telephone number. Grandparents took the child to counseling following father’s death
“to make sure he was adjusting.” Mother “was going to try to pick [the child] up” but didn’t want to
“uproot” or “traumatize” him. In the time leading up to father’s death, mother saw the child at least
once a year.
Following father’s death, grandparents met with mother to inform her that they were filing
for emergency custody of the child. Mother attended the initial hearing at the City of Colonial
Heights Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court (“the JDR court”) in June 2020. The JDR
court ordered that mother could visit with the child every third Sunday from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m.
Mother arrived at the first visitation at grandparents’ home, but only stayed for one hour due to
disagreements between mother and grandparents. Mother did not attend any other scheduled
visitations and did not contact grandparents explaining her absence. The JDR court granted full
custody of the child to grandparents. Mother did not attend the hearing, and the JDR court did not
order visitation for mother.
Mother had no further interaction with the child. In August 2020, grandparents petitioned
the circuit court for adoption of the child. Thereafter, mother contacted grandparents once and
asked to visit the child during Christmas 2020. On the advice of counsel, grandparents declined
mother’s request and informed mother that “it wasn’t in the best interest of the child” to visit during
2 Grandparents considered mother’s social media posts inappropriate for the child. -3- Christmas. Outside of this one instance, grandparents had never denied mother access to the child.
Other than mother’s contact at Christmas, from June 2020 until the time of the circuit court hearing,
mother did not visit the child.
At the hearing, mother expressed her opposition to the adoption but acknowledged that she
was not in a position to take custody of the child. Mother testified that she is also the parent to a
daughter, born in 2019, who, at the time of trial, was living with her maternal grandmother.
Mother’s daughter was removed from her custody after a court found that there was drug
paraphernalia in mother’s home and drug use in front of mother’s daughter. Mother was
incarcerated at the time of the circuit court hearing and admitted that she had “been a drug addict
on-and-off.” Mother testified that she had been “on-and-off in recovery” and had faced a number of
criminal charges. Mother stated that she was “a binge user” and would have “a weekend binge
every few months.” Mother claimed she was “trying to rehabilitate [her] life and focus on moving
forward with both [her] children.”
Grandparents testified that they had been very engaged in the child’s life, including the
child’s schooling and sporting events. Mother had never attended any school events and had
attended only one sports game. The child was active in church, had many friends, and was doing
very well in school. Grandparents testified that they provided the child a stable home, were
financially capable of meeting the child’s needs, including private school tuition and health
insurance, and had a college savings plan for the child. Grandparents wanted the child “to continue
to be comfortable in [their] home.”
After hearing the parties’ evidence and arguments, the circuit court reviewed the standards
delineated in Code § 63.2-1205 and found that mother had withheld her consent to the adoption
contrary to the child’s best interests. The circuit court granted grandparents’ petition for adoption
and entered the final order of adoption on September 9, 2021. This appeal follows.
-4- ANALYSIS
Mother argues that the circuit court erred in finding that her consent for adoption was
unreasonably withheld, and asks this Court to overturn the circuit court’s order and deny the
grandparents’ petition for adoption. Mother “argues that there is no evidence that a continuation of
this present, very limited, relationship, or any future broadening of this relationship would be
detrimental in any way, or disruptive to the minor child.” Specifically, mother asserts that the trial
court erred in disregarding evidence that her attempts to assert her parental rights were thwarted by
other people and that she had enjoyed a close relationship with the child during the early years of
the child’s life. We reject mother’s arguments and find that the evidence was sufficient to support
the circuit court’s finding that the adoption was in the child’s best interests.
“‘[T]he interest of parents in the care, custody, and control of their children . . . is perhaps
the oldest of the fundamental liberty interests recognized by’ the United States Supreme Court.”
Geouge, 68 Va. App. at 368 (quoting Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65 (2000) (plurality
opinion)); see also Berry v. Barnes, 72 Va. App. 281, 288 (2020). “Generally, consent of the birth
parents is necessary for an adoption in Virginia. Code § 63.2-1202. Virginia’s statutory scheme,
however, allows for adoptions without the consent of a parent in certain, specifically delineated
circumstances.” Geouge, 68 Va. App. at 369. “Code § 63.2-1203(A) sets forth one such
circumstance, providing that ‘[i]f, after consideration of the evidence, the circuit court finds that the
valid consent of any person . . . whose consent is required is withheld contrary to the best interests
of the child as set forth in § 63.2-1205, . . . the circuit court may grant the petition without such
consent.’” Id. (quoting Code § 63.2-1203(A)).
Code § 63.2-1205 states, in relevant part, as follows:
In determining whether the valid consent of any person whose consent is required is withheld contrary to the best interests of the child, . . . the circuit court . . . shall consider whether granting the petition pending before it would be in the best interest of the child. -5- The circuit court . . . shall consider all relevant factors, including the birth parent(s)’ efforts to obtain or maintain legal and physical custody of the child; whether the birth parent(s) are currently willing and able to assume full custody of the child; whether the birth parent(s)’ efforts to assert parental rights were thwarted by other people; the birth parent(s)’ ability to care for the child; the age of the child; the quality of any previous relationship between the birth parent(s) and the child and between the birth parent(s) and any other minor children; the duration and suitability of the child’s present custodial environment; and the effect of a change of physical custody on the child.
“[T]he Supreme Court has held that ‘[t]he eight factors in Code § 63.2-1205 . . . focus on
both the parent and child and therefore compel a court to consider whether a parent’s unfitness
would be harmful to the child’s welfare.’” Geouge, 68 Va. App. at 370 (quoting Copeland v.
Todd, 282 Va. 183, 199 (2011)). Consequently, “the Supreme Court concluded that an adoption
that occurs over a parent’s objection pursuant to Code §§ 63.2-1203 and 63.2-1205 survives
‘constitutional due process scrutiny because [the statutory requirements] encompass far more
than mere consideration of the child’s best interests as defined in cases involving a contest
between natural parents.’” Id. (alteration in original) (quoting Copeland, 282 Va. at 200).
The record demonstrates that the circuit court considered the evidence presented and
evaluated all of the statutory factors in concluding that “[the mother’s] withholding [of her] consent
to the adoption . . . is unreasonable and is contrary to the best interests of the minor child.” The
circuit court explained that since mother and father divorced, at “every court proceeding thereafter,
custody has been awarded to someone other than mother.” The circuit court accepted mother’s
concession that she was not in a position to assume custody of the child, “given her current
incarceration status and medical situation.” Mother again admits on appeal “that she is not in a
place right now where she is seeking custody of” the child. The circuit court noted that mother had
seen the child “approximately one time per year until” father’s death. The circuit court determined
that at the initial custody hearing following father’s death, mother had tested positive for fentanyl.
-6- The circuit court found that after the JDR court set a formal visitation schedule, mother visited the
child “only one time and thereafter abandoned all attempts to visit with” the child. The circuit court
noted that the last time mother cared for the child had been seven-and-a-half years earlier. The
circuit court determined that the evidence established that mother is a “drug addict” and that she
lacked the ability to care for the child because “[s]he is currently incarcerated, and [had been]
suffering through the medical process of addiction . . . for years with multiple attempts at
rehabilitation, which have not produced the desired results.”
On appeal, mother argues that grandparents thwarted her efforts to assert her parental rights
over the child. Although the circuit court acknowledged that “perhaps” mother’s parental rights
previously had been thwarted by other people, the court concluded that “once a [c]ourt order of
visitation was put in place that had a specified visitation schedule that sounded pretty minimal, two
hours every three weeks, even that small amount of visitation was not fully exercised.” The circuit
court explained that “whatever thwarting was going on had been effectively eviscerated and
removed” by the court-ordered visitation, and mother did not dispute that she failed to follow
through with the visitation schedule and only attended half of one session. Moreover, the circuit
court found that mother, despite having notice, failed to attend the subsequent hearing to determine
“a more permanent arrangement” for custody and visitation.
Mother also argues that she had been the child’s “primary caretaker” and “had a close,
loving relationship with her son,” up until the child was almost four years old. The circuit court
“assume[d], without ruling,” that mother had a positive relationship with the child while he was
very young. The circuit court noted, however, that the child had been out of mother’s care for over
seven years and that “the relationship that occurred since that time became increasingly degraded
over time,” and was especially impacted by mother’s drug addiction and incarceration. The circuit
court further noted that mother also did not have custody of her other child.
-7- Moreover, the circuit court considered the “age of the child and the duration of the current
custodial arrangement.” At the time of the circuit court hearing, the child was eleven years old and
had been living with grandparents for over seven years. The circuit court concluded that the
duration and suitability of the child’s custodial environment was “excellent.” The circuit court
determined that even before father’s death, grandparents “were fully involved in the upbringing of
[the child], meeting with teachers, coaching and attending his recreational sporting events, involving
him in the church[,] and acting in parental roles to the minor child.” Finally, the court concluded
that “[a]ll parties agree, and the [c]ourt concurs, that to change that child’s physical custody would
be detrimental if not disastrous.”
Considering the record before us, the circuit court did not err in finding that the adoption
was in the child’s best interests and that mother had withheld her consent to the adoption contrary to
the child’s best interests. “When, as here, the circuit court reviewed the statutory factors, based its
findings on evidence presented, and did not commit legal error, there is no basis for this Court to
reverse its decision.” Geouge, 68 Va. App. at 372.
CONCLUSION
For the foregoing reasons, the circuit court’s ruling is affirmed.
Affirmed.
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