Anonymous v. Anonymous

173 Misc. 679, 18 N.Y.S.2d 806, 1940 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 1574
CourtNew York Family Court
DecidedMarch 19, 1940
StatusPublished
Cited by6 cases

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Anonymous v. Anonymous, 173 Misc. 679, 18 N.Y.S.2d 806, 1940 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 1574 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1940).

Opinion

Sicher, J.

The petition herein was filed against the mother of a minor child after a petition previously filed against the father had proved fruitless.

On January 24, 1940, a warrant was issued for such father in the proceeding against him (docket No. 153 — 1940), but it is still unexecuted and he has not been found within the State.

The child (“ John Doe ”) in whose behalf his paternal grandmother filed both petitions is the son of E. D. and B. D. (the above-named respondent). He was born on July 6, 1923, and will attain the age of seventeen years on July 6, 1940.

John is a fourth term pupil at X High School; he is not robust and under doctor’s orders consumes eleven quarts of milk each week.

The parents have been separated for upwards of twelve years, and John has been living with petitioner since he was about four years old. Originally, petitioner’s household included also her own husband and two unmarried daughters (A. and B.) and at times also John’s father. But petitioner was widowed in 1936, her daughter A. died in July 1939, and in December, 1939, her son E. disappeared and stopped the contributions which he had formerly made, although irregularly, toward the upkeep of petitioner’s household and his son John’s maintenance.

Except for life insurance, petitioner’s late husband left nothing. After his death the petitioner’s mainstay had been the earnings of her daughter A., who, in turn, died in July, 1939, and left to her sister B. as beneficiary only an amount barely adequate to cover the expenses of decedent’s last illness and burial. So upon B. has fallen the burden of endeavoring to support petitioner, who is seventy-four years old, of failing eye-sight, without earning capacity, and possessed of no income or property except a small balance of her late husband’s life insurance moneys.

Unquestionably, the primary obligation for the support of a minor child rests upon its father. (DeBrauwere v. DeBrauwere, 203 N. Y. 460. Cf. Anonymous v. Anonymous, 171 Misc. 644.) But even at common law the mother has a secondary liability if the father fails to discharge his primary duty. (See Hagopian v. Samuelson, 236 App. Div. 491.) And in any event the mother’s secondary liability is expressly recognized and enforcible by statute, the basis for the instant proceeding against the respondent-mother being subdivision 2 of section 101 of the Domestic Relations Court Act of the City of New York, namely: “ Where the father of a child is dead or is incapable of supporting his child or cannot be found within the State, the mother of such child is hereby declared to be chargeable with its support and, if possessed of sufficient means or able to earn such means, may be required to pay for its support a fair and reasonable [681]*681sum according to her means, as may be determined by the court.” (Italics supplied.)

The liability of grandparents arises, under subdivision 3 of that same section, only when and if the court is unable to secure adequate support- for the child from either or both of its parents and the child’s grandparents are of sufficient means. So, as between John’s mother and his grandparents, the mother’s legal liability is the primary one, even though, as between the father (now disappeared) and the mother, the father’s liability comes first.

Moreover, the paternal grandmother (petitioner) is without means to support the child; and the maternal grandmother resides in California and is not now under the jurisdiction of this court.

There is no legal obligation whatever, either at common law or by statute, on the part of the paternal aunt B., although her attachment to John is such that she will doubtless struggle to do all she can for him and to supplement the support from John’s mother.

Accordingly, as indicated at the close of the testimony, it remains only to determine what is the “ fair and reasonable sum ” which the mother may at this time be required to pay. (Cf. Matter of Wignall v. Wignall, 163-Misc. 910.)

Respondent is a telephone operator employed at X Hospital at a salary of ninety dollars per month (payable in semi-monthly. installments of forty-five dollars on the fifteenth and last business days of each month), plus meals on the six working days of each week. That is her only ascertained income or property. She is a remainderman-beneficiary under a California will but testified that her interest is contingent on survivorship of her mother as the fife beneficiary. So, upon the evidence presented, that estate interest must be disregarded as constituting any “ means ” of respondent at this time, and the amount of today’s order is predicated on that assumption.

The aforementioned “ fair and reasonable sum ” must, therefore, be computed with reference only to respondent’s cash income of ninety dollars a month (plus meals) or about twenty dollars and seventy-seven cents a week (not the twenty-two dollars and fifty cents per week sum erroneously postulated in petitioner’s counsel’s helpful brief).

Respondent testified that she is unable to contribute anything at all towards John’s support; and it was evident from her demeanor upon the stand that she resents this proceeding and feels no legal and not much moral, obligation to John, doubtless because he has been living since early childhood with the family of her estranged husband and until now she has not been called upon to finance his maintenance during these many years. Her - affections 'seem to [682]*682have centered, instead, on her two other children, a daughter (D.), now twenty-two years old, and another son (E.), now nineteen years old but an inmate of a reformatory or penitentiary in Ohio. Nevertheless, although it would not be unnatural that John should feel closer to his grandmother and aunt in view of the circumstances of his up-bringing, there is no evidence of any attempt of the petitioner to turn the child against his mother. Indeed, respondent testified that she sees John regularly and that she is considering taking steps to cause him to live with her.

Questions of custody cannot be determined as an incident to a Family Court support proceeding (Matter of Berman v. Berman, 169 Misc. 921) and there has been shown no basis whatever for a neglect petition in the Children’s Court Division. So, any application for change of John’s custody would have to be made to the Supreme Court. However, it is my impression that respondent’s remark concerning John’s custody was merely an in terrorem gesture and an outburst of irritation at respondent’s being suddenly called upon to assume a burden which should be carried by the father. But if respondent did make that statement deliberately and in good faith it would be some indication of undisclosed resources. For, obviously, since she represents herself as unable to pay anything toward a continuance of John’s maintenance in his grandmother’s home, it is difficult to figure out how she could house, feed and clothe him, in her own home and provide proper supervision during her absence at work.

In support of her contention of financial inability to pay any amount whatever toward John’s support, respondent testified that out of her income of ninety dollars month (i. e., twenty dollars and seventy-seven cents a week) she was already obligated for the

following fixed weekly sums:

Rent for a furnished room in sister’s home............ $8 00

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