Andrea J. Clare v. Kevin P. Clare

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedDecember 28, 2021
Docket36814-9
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

FILED DECEMBER 28, 2021 In the Office of the Clerk of Court WA State Court of Appeals, Division III

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON DIVISION THREE

ANDREA J. CLARE, ) ) No. 36814-9-III Respondent, ) (Consolidated with ) No. 36911-1-III) v. ) ) KEVIN P. CLARE, ) UNPUBLISHED OPINION ) Appellant. )

STAAB, J. — After a protracted dissolution proceeding and trial, both parties

appeal the trial court’s final orders. Kevin Clare argues that the trial court went too far in

finding statutory limiting factors that supported a restriction on his residential time and

decision-making. He also challenges the stalking no-contact order issued at trial. Andrea

Clare argues that the trial court did not go far enough, claiming that the court failed to

make findings of domestic violence even though the evidence supported this finding.

Both parties submitted briefing that was deficient in several respects.

We deny the appeal and cross-appeal and affirm the trial court’s decisions. We

begin our analysis in light of the oft-cited standard of reviewing family law decisions

under an abuse of discretion lens:

We once again repeat the rule that trial court decisions in a dissolution action will seldom be changed upon appeal. Such decisions are No. 36814-9-III (Consol. with No. 36911-1-III) In re Marriage of Clare

difficult at best. Appellate courts should not encourage appeals by tinkering with them. The emotional and financial interests affected by such decisions are best served by finality. The spouse who challenges such decisions bears the heavy burden of showing a manifest abuse of discretion on the part of the trial court.

In re Marriage of Landry, 103 Wn.2d 807, 809, 699 P.2d 214 (1985) (citing In re

Marriage of Kozen, 103 Wn.2d 470, 478, 693 P.2d 97 (1985).

BACKGROUND

A. THE MARRIAGE

The following facts are drawn primarily from testimony at trial and the trial

court’s findings of fact.

Andrea Clare and Kevin Clare married on June 25, 2005. Approximately two

years later, Ms. Clare disclosed to Mr. Clare that she had another relationship shortly

before the wedding. This created trust issues in the marriage. After that conversation,

Mr. Clare insisted that Ms. Clare let him know if she was going out with anyone other

than a client or partner.

Thereafter, the couple had three children together, ages 9, 8, and 5, at the time of

trial. Mr. Clare acted as the primary stay-at-home parent. Ms. Clare ran the family

finances. Ms. Clare is an attorney, and Mr. Clare is a crop-dusting pilot. For the most

part, the marriage was unremarkable save an incident in 2013 when Mr. Clare pushed

Ms. Clare in a parking lot. Ms. Clare testified that Mr. Clare never physically hit her.

2 No. 36814-9-III (Consol. with No. 36911-1-III) In re Marriage of Clare

In the spring of 2015, Mr. Clare suspected Ms. Clare of having an affair and began

monitoring her location with a cell phone application (app). In May 2015, he drove to

Ms. Clare’s office and showed her the app, indicating that he could see where she was

located. In August 2015, Ms. Clare traveled to her grandmother’s home. Convinced she

was with someone else, Mr. Clare demanded that Ms. Clare put her grandmother on the

phone in the middle of the night to confirm Ms. Clare was with her grandmother. When

she returned from this trip, Mr. Clare went through her travel garments, looking for

evidence of an affair.

In December 2015, Mr. Clare looked through Ms. Clare’s phone without her

permission and forwarded several of her work e-mails to his own account.

The parties separated on February 6, 2016, and Ms. Clare moved into her own

apartment. Initially, the children spent equal time with each parent. Ms. Clare changed

phone providers to prevent Mr. Clare from tracking her location. In April 2016, she was

showing Mr. Clare child support worksheets on her phone. When she became distracted,

Mr. Clare looked through her phone and read text messages confirming that Ms. Clare

was having a relationship with her law partner, George Telquist. Mr. Clare said he was

so angry he could “Pop George” and “Pop You.” Clerk’s Papers (CP) at 2468.

After this, Mr. Clare continued to monitor Ms. Clare’s activities through mutual

friends and acquaintances. At the advice of his attorney, Mr. Clare began keeping a

journal of incidents that he thought would be relevant to the dissolution.

3 No. 36814-9-III (Consol. with No. 36911-1-III) In re Marriage of Clare

B. THE LITIGATION

Ms. Clare filed for divorce in Franklin County Superior Court on August 11, 2016.

While Ms. Clare sought a relatively equal residential schedule, Mr. Clare argued that he

had been the primary parent during the marriage and insisted on being named the primary

residential parent. Mr. Clare moved for the appointment of a guardian ad litem (GAL) to

investigate the children’s best interest. Ms. Clare objected, arguing there was no need for

a GAL since there were no limiting factors.

In July 2018, the GAL submitted a 178-page report. The GAL noted that Ms.

Clare was no longer seeking joint custody but instead was seeking primary custody

because Mr. Clare would not work with her on co-parenting. The GAL attached a copy

of Mr. Clare’s journal as an exhibit to her report. In her report, the GAL recommended

against designating Mr. Clare as the primary parent:

Given Mr. Clare’s past and current behaviors it is more likely than not that primary placement of the children would result in them being denied the benefit of their mother’s input into their lives. This would be to the actual detriment of the children. Therefore, this GAL doesn’t believe this option to be in the best interest of the children.

CP at 979. The GAL noted that Mr. Clare’s journal exposed the extent of his

questioning, which she believed was emotionally abusive to the children. She provided

several examples of improper questioning. The GAL also pointed out that Mr. Clare has

a history of refusing to allow Ms. Clare to participate in decisions for the children and

4 No. 36814-9-III (Consol. with No. 36911-1-III) In re Marriage of Clare

overriding her decisions. “When she would try to make choices for the children, he

would find passive[-]aggressive ways to punish her.” CP at 982.

Ultimately, the GAL recommended a joint residential schedule so long as Mr.

Clare would “submit to a forensic psychological evaluation for the purpose of

determining if his behaviors are the result of a mental illness that may be rectified by

treatment.” CP at 993, 1001. The GAL recommended that sole decision-making

authority be granted to Ms. Clare to alleviate parental alienation and chaos concerns.

Shortly after this report was submitted, the court moved the trial date from July 31

to October and authorized depositions of the parties and the GAL. On August 2, Mr.

Clare had his deposition taken. On August 14, the GAL filed an amendment to her July

23 report. She indicated that in light of Mr. Clare’s deposition testimony and the new

trial date, she was no longer recommending shared custody.

At trial, the GAL explained why she changed her recommendation. She testified

that shortly before she filed her July report, she spoke with Mr. Clare about her upcoming

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