Anderson v. Anderson

189 Iowa 95
CourtSupreme Court of Iowa
DecidedNovember 22, 1919
StatusPublished
Cited by6 cases

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Bluebook
Anderson v. Anderson, 189 Iowa 95 (iowa 1919).

Opinion

Preston,, J.

1' ftose^chárges of infidelity. 1. The parties were married December 1, 1901. She was past 49 years of age, and he was about the same age. She had been married three times, and secured a divorce from each of her husbands. She told defendant of two of her marriages. She had , « . , , , a son by a former marriage, who was about IS years of age, at the time these parties were married. She [96]*96was a Avoman of average intelligence. He Avas a bricklayer, a steady, hard-Avorking man, but could not read or write, and bad little,, if any, education, and had had but little business experience. He, turned over his Avages to her, until she returned from California, in the spring of 1918. Defendant then told plaintiff that she had managed the business for 8y2 years, and that thereafter he Avould manage it himself. They at first lived in Des Moines, but later exchanged the toAvn property for acreage, just outside the city limits, where they built a neAV brick house, defendant doing the brick Avork. Plaintiff had some money of her OAvn, which Avent into the neAV property. She had,, before this, purchased a considerable amount of household goods, Avhich, she testifies, she paid for. The deed to the neAV property was taken in the name of both of them, or of the survivor of the other. Plaintiff testifies that this was the arrangement, and it seems not to be seriously disputed by the defendant. He says he saAV the deed, but doesn’t remember Avhether he heard it read or not. They seem to have gotten along fairly AA^ell until about December, 1917, at Avhich time plaintiff claims defendant’s treatment of her changed. The doctor testifies that he first treated plaintiff tAAro or three years before that, and that, at that time, she was extremely nervous, had some temperature, from which he suspected she might have tuberculosis (but, at the time of the trial, he was of opinion that she did not have that); that she was broken doAvn in health, and he advised her to go to California through the cold weather. She Avent to California on December 13th. About February 21, 1918, defendant caused her to be notified to return home at once,, and that she Avould receive all the medical attention that she required. Upon receipt of this letter, she Avired for ticket and traveling expenses, and received a. Avire back that ticket Avould be furnished at the depot, and $5.00 in money. She then had $50, Avhich she had borroAved from her son, who then had a family. On her arrival home, she Avent to bed, and, a Aveek afterwards, it was decided that she must go to [97]*97the hospital for an operation. She testified that he swore and cursed her, in connection with the operation, and said:

“God damn your soul to hell, you are grunting and sick all the time, and you can’t work, and what in hell good are you ? What are you laying around here for ?”

She says that, the night before she went to the hospital, she invited her son and his wife to supper. The daughter prepared the supper. Defendant came in, and found the daughter getting the supper. He got his own supper, and ate it in the kitchen. While she was at the table, he came to the door, and said:

“God damn you, you said you were sick; but, by God, you are able to go to the table and eat like a hog.’’

This circumstance is testified to by plaintiff and her son and his wife. It is denied by the defendant. She went to the hospital that night, and was operated on the next morning, and was on the operating table 2]4 hours. She testifies that she asked defendant to go to the hospital with her, but that he refused to do so. He testifies that ■ the reason he did not go, was because he couldn’t stand it to be present; and there is other testimony that, when she started to go, he assisted her into the conveyance,, and that he cried and told the doctor to take good care of her. The next Sunday after the operation, which occurred on Friday, he went to her room in the hospital. She testifies that he was so angry he was white, and raised his arms and hands like a crazy man, and cursed her soul to hell, and said everything abusive that he could say, because she had everything cut out of her; that he said she wasn’t a, woman,, and he wasn’t going to live with her; that he cursed and swore at her, because she couldn’t have children; that, prior to that, he had always objected to children; that he stayed in the room about an hour and a half, but showed no affection of any kind. He testifies that .lie took her flowers to the hospital three times. The first time, he gave them to the nurse, and thought his Avtfe did not know him. He went to the hospital again, the next Tuesday night after his work, and [98]*98brought a npte for $280 from the bank for her to sign. She says it was a renewal note, but he claims it was to pay some of the bills that she had made. She told him she could not sign it, because he had refused to give her any money since she got home, and that he had said he never would, and there would be no use for her to sign it. She testifies that he swore and cursed, and tried to malte her sign it, and she said she could not lift her hand, she was so weak and sick. _The next Thursday night, he went again, and she testifies that he cursed and swore, and that she finally signed the note. She testifies that,, at this time, there was no sign of affection, or at either visit, and that he wanted to know', with an oath, how long she was going to lie there, and that he said:

“By God, I suppose you know what it is going to cost for you to lay here. We will never get that note at the bank paid, as long as you lay around like this.”

He denies that there was any friction or cursing, and says that he kissed her, and inquired how she was getting along. She was in the hospital a little over two w'eeks. When she returned home, she was not able to move her feet on the floor, or lift them. When she stood up, two persons had to hold her, and a third move her feet. She was in bed two weeks, after she got home, and then began sitting up a little. After she had been home about a month, her son telephoned her to take a ride, and defendant objected to it. He admits that he objected, but puts it on the ground that it was too cold for her to ride,, as she had been in bed. Plaintiff testifies that defendant always objected to her son, and referred to him as “that God damn kid.” This he denies. The next morning after plaintiff took the ride with her son, there was trouble between the parties, with reference to a woman who had been helping plaintiff do the housework. Plaintiff testifies that, after that, defendant swore at her and cursed her continuously. She says:

“He was never in the house for an hour at a time without cursing and swearing at me. From that time on, he would [99]*99say, 'God damn you, ain’t you going to get out of bed?’ 'God damn you, ain’t you going to fix my lunch?’ and just curse. I told him that I could not work, on account of my health, and the doctor had cautioned me about pumping or carrying water; but I had to do it, and he came home and swore at me because I did not pump the water for the chickens. We. had a cow and calf and pigs and chickens and garden; and, from the time the woman left, I did my own housework. Mr. Anderson got his own breakfast, but I managed to get his supper and put up his lunch. I often asked for help, hut he said, 'By God,, you can do it or let it alone.’ ”

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