A.M.M. v. A.M.U.
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-0687-22
A.M.M., Plaintiff-Respondent,
v. A.M.U.,1
Defendant-Appellant.
Submitted March 5, 2024 – Decided April 15, 2024 Before Judges Mayer and Paganelli.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Gloucester County, Docket No. FV-08-1326-22.
Mario J. Persiano, III, attorney for appellant.
Cordry Hartman, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Frances Ann Hartman, on the brief).
PER CURIAM
1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the parties. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).
Defendant appeals from a July 7, 2022 final restraining order (FRO)
entered against him and in favor of plaintiff, pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. Because the trial judge made appropriate credibility determinations, his factual findings are supported by substantial credible evidence, and those facts were correctly applied to the law, we affirm.
We glean the facts and procedural history from the trial record. On April 11, 2022, plaintiff obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant following an incident that occurred between them on that day. She alleged the predicate act of assault under N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1. She claimed:
[S]he was in defendant's room in his residence and a verbal argument ensued over issues with infidelity.
Plaintiff stated during this argument def[endant] began to choke her. Pla[intiff] stated def[endant] placed his hand around her neck and had her on her back on his bed. Pla[intiff] believes she was choked for approximately twenty seconds and she stated that she felt dizzy as he obstructed her airway but did not lose consciousness. Pla[intiff] advised that she was able to scream for him to get off her and had to physically push him do she could get up from the bed.
Plaintiff also described a prior history of domestic violence that involved "one other time [d]ef[endant] had [his] hand around pla[intiff's] neck and choked her, unreported."
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On May 12, 2022, plaintiff amended the TRO to include further allegations of the parties' history of domestic violence to include:
10-30-21 def[endant] slapped pla[intiff] in face [and]
left a bruise. [11-20]-21 def[endant] slapped pla[intiff]
[and] left a red mark. 1-21-22 def[endant] slapped pla[intiff] in the face [and] left a red mark. 1[-]27[-]22 – 1[-]28[-]22 def[endant] called [pla]intiff a whore, stupid, and other awful names. 1-27-21 def[endant]
threw pla[intiff] into a wall [and] choked her. 10-24-
21 def[endant] grabbed [and] bit pla[intiff] on the shoulder, neck, chest [and] legs. He caused pain and bruising. Def[endant] said he was a lion and pla[intiff]
was his prey.
The matter was tried over two days, June 16 and July 7, 2022. Plaintiff and her mother testified on her behalf. Defendant did not testify, but his father and stepmother testified on his behalf.
Plaintiff testified that her and defendant's dating relationship included "sadomasochistic type sexual behavior." She admitted they "engaged in rough sex" including "consensual choking." Some of these activities left marks and bruises.
Plaintiff testified she loaned defendant money. She explained when she sought repayment, he would avoid her. Plaintiff asked defendant to hang-out, intending to ask him for the money. They agreed to meet on April 11, 2022, at defendant's house. Once at the house, they went to his bedroom. Sitting on
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opposite ends of his bed, they discussed their relationship and his desire for them to continue their relationship. Defendant moved closer to plaintiff, caressing her leg and touching her back and arms. Plaintiff tried to move his hand away and told him she was uncomfortable and did not want to have sex. Then defendant lunged at her, grabbed her throat, and pushed her back on the bed. Plaintiff described defendant "squeezing" her throat and her "struggling to breathe."
The trial judge found plaintiff to be "overall a credible witness." He observed she "answered directly under cross examination" and "never seemed particularly evasive in any way." The judge noted "[h]er displays of emotion were few and far between, but [he] thought appropriate to the occasion."
In addition, the trial judge reviewed pictures of plaintiff taken on and a few days after the April 11, 2022 incident. The judge described the pictures as depicting: (1) discoloration and darkness of plaintiff's right eye; (2) finger marks on the left side of plaintiff's neck; and (3) "reddish purple" bruising on the left side of plaintiff's neck. The judge concluded "the marks [we]re consistent with plaintiff's testimony [of] a choking act by" defendant.
The trial judge stated that he expected defendant to testify. The judge noted defendant did not have a "burden" and was not required to "disprove" the
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case. Moreover, he observed defendant's testimony was protected under the PDVA and could not be used except in limited circumstances in a criminal trial. Nonetheless, the judge explained he reasonably expected defendant to "explain," "clarify," or "contradict" plaintiff's evidence, and he declined to do so. Under the circumstances, the judge noted he could take an adverse inference against defendant based on his choice not to testify.
The trial judge found defendant committed the predicate act of assault.
The judge determined defendant "grab[bed plaintiff] by the throat, squeez[ed] to the point where [he] saw evidence of injury around the eyes and the left side of her throat, and cut[] off her air supply." The judge credited plaintiff's testimony wherein she "absolutely den[ied]" anything sexual about the April 11 incident.
The judge considered whether there were prior acts of domestic violence.
He noted the evidence revealed consensual "slapping"; "rough sex"; choking of plaintiff; and "distasteful" name calling. He concluded he could not "make any affirmative finding" that there was a prior history of domestic violence.
The trial judge found plaintiff required the protection of an FRO. The judge determined defendant's choking of plaintiff, on April 11, 2022, was an act of "dominance and control . . . [that] the [PDVA] was geared to prevent." The
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judge determined, unequivocally, the FRO was necessary considering the "assault by strangulation."
On appeal, defendant argues: (1) his due process rights were violated when his attorney advised him not to testify because of a parallel criminal prosecution; and (2) the trial judge erred in his application of the factors under N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(1) through (6). We disagree.
Our review of a trial judge's factual findings is limited. Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 411 (1998). "The general rule is that findings by the trial court are binding on appeal when supported by adequate, substantial, credible evidence." Id. at 411-12 (citing Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Inv'rs Ins. Co., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). Moreover, "[b]ecause of the family courts' special jurisdiction and expertise in family matters, [we] . . . accord deference to family court fact[-]finding." Id. at 413. Such deference is particularly proper "when the evidence is largely testimonial and involves questions of credibility." Id. at 412 (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D., 149 N.J. 108, 117 (1997)). On the other hand, we will review questions of law determined by the trial court de novo. Smith v. Millville Rescue Squad, 225 N.J. 373, 387 (2016) (citing Manalapan Realty, L.P. v. Twp. Comm. of Manalapan, 140 N.J. 366, 378 (1995)).
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