A.M. VS. J.P.M. (FV-20-0408-21, UNION COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedSeptember 10, 2021
DocketA-0900-20
StatusUnpublished

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RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0900-20

A.M.,

Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

J.P.M.,

Defendant-Respondent. _________________________

Argued March 3, 2021 - Decided September 10, 2021

Before Judges Ostrer, Accurso and Enright.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket No. FV-20-0408-21.

Susan McCue argued the cause for appellant (Central Jersey Legal Services, Inc., attorneys; Susan McCue, on the briefs).

Nicholas T. Delaney argued the cause for respondent (Law Office of Katherine G. Houghton, attorneys; Nicholas T. Delaney, on the brief).

PER CURIAM Plaintiff A.M. appeals from the denial of her application for a final

restraining order against her husband defendant J.P.M. pursuant to the

Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the Act), N.J.S.A. 2C:25 -17 to -35 and

the dismissal of the temporary restraining order against him. 1 Although the

judge found defendant committed the predicate act of harassment pursuant to

N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(13), he failed to consider other acts alleged in plaintiff's

complaint, including assault and criminal mischief. More important, he let

plaintiff's subjective fear of defendant dictate whether an FRO was necessary to

protect plaintiff from an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse instead

of considering the statutory factors the Legislature established in N.J.S.A.

2C:25-29(a)(1) to (6).

Specifically, the judge declared "the plaintiff's fear is important and goes

to the heart of whether or not even the plaintiff feels that she is in some

immediate danger." He found "a plaintiff would know better than the court

whether or not she actually is in any immediate danger." Because the judge

determined plaintiff didn't "really believe[] that she's in some immediate danger

1 We granted plaintiff's emergent motion to stay the final order pending our resolution of this appeal and reinstated the temporary restraining order, remanding to the judge presiding over the parties' divorce for the limited purpose of deciding whether the order should be amended to permit defendant parenting time and, if so, under what conditions. A-0900-20 2 from the defendant," he found plaintiff "is [not] in any immediate danger from

[defendant]," and, accordingly "conclude[d] that there is not a reason to have a

restraining order going forward to protect her from further abuse."

Because a plaintiff's subjective fear of the defendant is not the test under

the second prong of Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125-27 (App. Div.

2006), and plaintiff is entitled to the court's consideration of every theory alleged

in her complaint, we vacate the order denying the FRO, reinstate the TRO and

remand for a new hearing before a different judge.

The essential facts as to what happened to prompt plaintiff's application

for a TRO are not in dispute. The parties' marriage was foundering. Defendant

had filed for divorce, and the reconciliation they were attempting was not going

well. Plaintiff was trying to sleep in on a Sunday morning having worked the

night shift. The parties were arguing and plaintiff got up to be with the parties'

three young children. Defendant had started in on a bottle of vodka by a little

after noon.

At some point, defendant texted plaintiff that he was leaving. Plaintiff

started to walk through the house looking for him and saw him outside.

According to plaintiff, defendant charged into the house, highly intoxicated,

saying "f… this . . . I'm not f…ing doing this anymore, I'm gonna go kill myself."

A-0900-20 3 Defendant had attempted to hang himself several months earlier, leading to a

nine-day hospitalization. Plaintiff thus took his threat seriously and said she

was going to call the police. 2 Defendant "came at [her]," attempting to wrest

the phone from her grasp.

Defendant ended up twisting plaintiff's arm behind her back and pinning

her face down on the couch, causing her pain and difficulty breathing. She

2 Plaintiff's counsel attempted to explore this history with plaintiff in an effort to establish the predicate act of harassment. Defense counsel objected on the basis it was not relevant. The court asked whether plaintiff was attempting to establish that "I'm going to kill myself is a statement offered with purpose to alarm the other individual[?]" When plaintiff's counsel confirmed that was what she was arguing, the judge said, "I'll allow just a little bit more with respect to that but I sincerely doubt that a restraining order would ever be given to someone because the defendant threatened to kill himself."

We do not agree with the judge that threats of suicide by a defendant would not support entry of a domestic violence restraining order. See Julie Saffren, Professional Responsibility in Civil Domestic Violence Matters, 24 Hastings Women's L.J. 3, 19 (2013) (describing "threats of suicide and self- harm" as red flags for high lethality domestic violence cases); Sally F. Goldfarb, Reconceiving Civil Protection Orders for Domestic Violence: Can Law Help End the Abuse Without Ending the Relationship?, 29 Cardozo L. Rev. 1487, 1539-40 (2008) (explaining researchers have identified "threats of homicide or suicide" as risk factors for future severe violence between perpetrators and victims of domestic violence); Catherine F. Klein & Leslye E. Orloff, Providing Legal Protection for Battered Women: An Analysis of State Statutes and Case Law, 21 Hofstra L. Rev. 801, 848 n.236, 863 (1993) (noting "[d]omestic violence consists of a wide range of behaviors, including . . . suicide threats or attempts" and describing how "[b]atterers often make threats of suicide as a method of exerting control over their battered intimate partner"). A-0900-20 4 couldn't move. The children were present and the parties' four-year-old son

jumped on defendant's back, hitting him and yelling at him to get off his mother.

Plaintiff yelled to her daughter to run outside and scream for help. The child,

seven years old, ran out the front door, crying and screaming for help. The

neighbors heard the child's screams and entered the house, causing defendant to

release plaintiff and run into the backyard. The parties' Ring doorbell captured

some of the mayhem.

When defendant let her go, plaintiff grabbed the children, ran to her

neighbor's house and called the police. The son who had been trying to fight off

his father, ran back into the house crying for him. Plaintiff followed the boy

and the two saw defendant in the backyard standing on a stool with a rope around

his neck. When police arrived, defendant ran inside and locked the doors. The

day ended in a three-hour standoff between defendant and a SWAT team, some

of which plaintiff could view on the Ring doorbell application on her phone,

including defendant throwing what appeared to be a brick at police . While

barricaded inside, defendant caused considerable damage, breaking two front

windows, the front door, blinds and a ceiling lamp in the kitchen, the dining

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