Alexander v. Alexander

2013 Ohio 2349
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided June 7, 2013·No. 2013 CA 3·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS FOR CHAMPAIGN COUNTY, OHIO

JACQUELINE E. ALEXANDER nka GROVE :

Plaintiff-Appellant : C.A. CASE NO. 2013 CA 3 v. : T.C. NO. 10DR100

CHARLES D. ALEXANDER, et al. : (Civil appeal from Common Pleas Court, Domestic Relations)

Defendants-Appellees :

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OPINION

Rendered on the 7th day of June , 2013.

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CATHY J. WEITHMAN, Atty. Reg. No. 0020889, 201 West Court Street, Urbana, Ohio 43078 Attorney for Plaintiff-Appellant

JACOB M. JEFFRIES, Atty. Reg. No. 0078470, 133 S. Main Street, New Carlisle, Ohio 45344 Attorney for Defendants-Appellees

KIRK ELLIS, Atty. Reg. No. 0055275, 121 S. Main Street, Urbana, Ohio 43078 Attorney for Defendant-Appellee

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FROELICH, J.

{¶ 1} Jacqueline Grove appeals from a judgment of the Champaign County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division, which denied her Motion to Change Allocation of Parental Rights and Responsibilities regarding her three minor children, who currently reside with their paternal grandparents, Charles R. and Minnie Alexander.

{¶ 2} Because we conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in overruling Grove’s motion, the judgment of the trial court will be affirmed.

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{¶ 3} Grove and her former husband, Charles D. Alexander, have three children: two boys and one girl. In 2010, Grove filed a complaint for divorce, and her husband’s parents, Charles R. and Minnie Alexander (hereinafter, “the Alexanders”), intervened in the action as third-party defendants. During the divorce proceedings, an agreed entry was filed in the trial court, stating that the Alexanders “shall have the primary rights and responsibilities for the care of” the children (the Alexanders’ grandchildren), who were then ages 15, 9, and 5. The agreed entry included detailed provisions for Grove’s visitation with the children. 1 Grove was awarded visitation on alternating weekends and for six weeks during the summer. The parties acknowledged in their agreement that the oldest child might refuse to visit with Grove, but they agreed that he would be encouraged to do so.

{¶ 4} In April 2012, Grove filed her motion to reallocate parental rights and responsibilities. The motion was prompted, in part, by the children’s father’s imminent release from prison and Grove’s concern that he would end up living with his parents and the children; the motion stated that such an arrangement would be contrary to a guardian ad litem’s

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The children’s father was in prison, and the agreed entry did not address his parenting rights.

“suggestion” (earlier in the case) and would not be in the best interest of the children. In November 2012, the trial court conducted a hearing on Grove’s motion.

{¶ 5} Although the motion listed all three children, Grove modified her request at the hearing, indicating that she did not seek custody of the oldest child; he was a senior in high school, had two jobs, had lived with his grandparents for a long time, and she “[didn’t] want to disrupt him.” Thus, the hearing only addressed the custody of the two younger children.

{¶ 6} At the hearing, Grove stated that, on the advice of the guardian ad litem in the case,2 she (Grove) had been working on making some changes to create a more stable home for her children. She presented evidence that she was employed and had lived in her current apartment for one and one-half years. She indicated that she had room for the children in the three-bedroom apartment she shared with her boyfriend. She went to the children’s school for lunch as often as possible (once a month or less), and talked with the principal about some problems that the younger son had been having. Several of Grove’s family members and friends testified that she was bonded with the children and was a good parent.

{¶ 7} Grove expressed concern about the situation in which the children were then living. She testified that Charles Alexander’s (the children’s grandfather’s) health, which had not been good at the time of the agreed entry, had further deteriorated. Grove also stated that the children’s father, who was out of prison by that time, lived “like four doors down” from the grandparents. She recounted (without objection) that, in the past, the guardian ad litem had

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During her testimony, Grove referred several times to statements a guardian ad litem had made to her at an earlier point, seemingly around the time of her divorce from Charles D. Alexander and the agreed entry related to custody of the children.

Grove did not identify the guardian ad litem by name, but the guardian ad litem who testified at the hearing, Linda McGillivray, stated that she had been the guardian ad litem during the “previous custody dispute,” as well as in the current matter.

expressed concern that the children “should [not] spend very much time with [their father] seeing what he went to prison for,” i.e., domestic violence against Grove and having weapons while under disability. Grove also mentioned some past incidents at the Alexanders’ home involving their other adult children, but admitted on cross-examination that these incidents had occurred prior to the agreed entry granting custody to the Alexanders. Grove and her boyfriend testified that she had received less summer visitation time with the children than required by the court’s order and that she had trouble contacting the children by telephone when they were with the Alexanders, even though she had bought them cell phones for this purpose.

{¶ 8} The guardian ad litem testified at the hearing and submitted a report for the court. Her report indicated that Grove’s home was appropriate for the children and that Grove interacted well with the children. The guardian ad litem further stated, however, that the children were doing very well with the Alexanders and were “very happy;” based on reports from their school and her conversations with the children, she concluded that the prospect of a change in custody was causing significant stress for the children, particularly the younger son, who made a comment at school about having “no reason to live.” The guardian ad litem also testified that the two younger children are very closely bonded with their older brother, who was determined to stay with the grandparents. She concluded that “the children would be devastated if they had to leave their grandparents” and recommended that the children remain with the Alexanders, with continued visitation with their mother.

{¶ 9} With respect to telephone contact, the guardian ad litem indicated that there had “been an issue,” which Grove claimed to have addressed by buying the children cell phones. The guardian ad litem also stated that Grove had complained about the Alexanders calling the

children daily during visitation.

{¶ 10} Charles R. Alexander (the children’s grandfather) testified that the children were doing very well in his household and that, despite some improvements in Grove’s situation, he believed a change in custody would be detrimental to the children. He also testified to the children’s very close relationship with their older brother. He contradicted Grove’s testimony that Grove had given the children cell phones, stating that he had actually provided one to the younger boy, but that Grove took it away during visits with her. He agreed with Grove’s testimony that she had only visited with the children for five weeks the previous summer, but he stated that Grove had received an extra week of visitation during the children’s fall break.

{¶ 11} The children’s father testified to his preference that the children remain with his parents, where they have always been happy and done well.

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