ALEJANDRO MENDOZA VS. SI-NAE SHIM (FM-02-2351-09, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided October 23, 2019·No. A-0917-18T1·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-0917-18T1

ALEJANDRO MENDOZA, Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. SI-NAE SHIM,

Defendant-Appellant.

Argued October 3, 2019 – Decided October 23, 2019 Before Judges Koblitz, Whipple, and Mawla.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FM-02-2351-09.

Robert W. Avery argued the cause for appellant (Avery & Avery, attorneys; Bonnie C. Frost and Matheu D.

Nunn, on the briefs).

Alejandro Mendoza, respondent, argued the cause pro se.

PER CURIAM

Defendant Si-Nae Shim appeals from an August 1, 2018 order granting plaintiff Alejandro Mendoza the ability to remove the parties' children to Florida, and a September 14, 2018 order, denying reconsideration. We affirm.

This matter has a lengthy history occasioned by defendant's refusal to return the children from South Korea, where the family had a short-lived residence due to the parties' work obligations as music instructors. We need not explain the details surrounding defendant's actions, except to note the ordeal concluded when defendant was arrested in Guam, extradited to New Jersey, and the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office required defendant to return the children to the United States as a condition of the dismissal of the criminal charges against her.

Following the children's return, a sixteen-day divorce trial occurred and the court entered a judgment of divorce on June 28, 2013. The trial judge concluded plaintiff testified credibly and defendant did not. The judge granted plaintiff sole legal custody of the children and defendant supervised parenting time because he concluded she posed "a substantial flight risk."

In June 2018, plaintiff filed a motion to remove the children to Florida.

He certified he received an employment offer in Naples, where he would be earning approximately double his current income. He also certified he had two

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sisters and a niece in Florida, with whom the children were very close. Plaintiff also requested the court terminate defendant's supervised visitations with the children, which were one hour per week.

Defendant filed a cross-motion opposing the removal and sought unsupervised visitation. Her certification questioned the good faith reasons for the removal. She claimed plaintiff could earn more income in his current position in New York and operated without debt, due to a bankruptcy action a few years earlier. Defendant also cited several written summaries of the supervised visitation sessions and a letter from a former visitation supervisor, touting the success of visitation.

At oral argument of the motions, the judge issued a tentative decision summarizing the reasons plaintiff articulated for the removal. The judge added the following:

[Plaintiff's] position is rather straight forward.

He correctly states that he has sole legal custody over the children and believes that it is his prerogative to make decisions for the children, based on what he believes is in their best interest.

....

He notes that the children are doing exceptionally well in his care. Particularly musically and academically he acknowledges that moving to Florida would effectively terminate [defendant's] weekly in[-]

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person supervised visitation with the children. But he argues that he is willing to work with [defendant] to make visitations happen in Florida.

He's also willing to expand the electronic communications so that [defendant] can communicate with the children regardless of where they are located.

[Defendant] strongly opposed [plaintiff's]

request for relocation. She argues that [plaintiff] is effectively trying to terminate her in[-]person parenting time. In fairness, this is a practical implication of [plaintiff's] moving to Florida. [Defendant] attaches notes . . . of her supervised visitations with the children[.] . . .

Those notes span from 2014 through 2016. There is no dispute in any of those papers that [defendant] exercises her supervised parenting time with the children on a regular basis and that the time is enjoyed by all parties.

Those documents make it appear that the children love their mother and their mother loves the children.

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The allegations of [defendant] are also given reinforcement from . . . previous Bergen Family Center supervisors. . . . Both supervisors note that [defendant] and the children have a loving relationship. [One supervisor] goes so far as recommending that [defendant] should be permitted an opportunity to exercise unsupervised parenting time. That of course would not be permitted absent a battery of psychological examinations and[/]or other professional examinations and professional opinions, to determine whether or not there is a risk to the children in

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remaining in the presence of [defendant] in an unsupervised capacity.

Because of that, I do intend to sign an order granting [plaintiff] the right to relocate to the state of Florida. There has been no showing made by [defendant] that there's a change of circumstances . . .

to readdress the custody aspect of this case.

Custody after trial has been vested in [plaintiff].

He has sole legal custody of the children. He has sole decision making for the children. He has sole residential custody of the children and . . . there is no need to have a plenary hearing because there's nothing to decide.

It is not a question of custody. As that has not been raised. . . . [T]his is not a joint legal custody case.

And I don't need to address that.

So I do intend to sign an order permitting dad to relocate with the children to Florida.

The lengthy oral argument that followed failed to convince the judge to change his tentative decision and he entered the August 1, 2018 order granting the removal. The order modified visitation and allowed defendant to travel to Florida once per month to enjoy five hours of supervised visitation. The judge ordered plaintiff to pay for defendant's flights, and defendant was required to pay for her accommodations in Florida and for the cost of the supervisor. Defendant was also entitled to have supervised communication with the children via Skype, Facetime, telephone, or similar platforms, once daily. The judge A-0917-18T1

denied defendant's request for unsupervised parenting time and a custody evaluation.

Defendant filed a motion for reconsideration. She argued the judge misapplied the law, she obtained newly-discovered evidence regarding plaintiff's concealment of information related to his reasons to move to Florida, and she was unable to afford the costs associated with the monthly visits to Florida. On September 14, 2018, the judge denied defendant's motion.

Defendant appealed from the September order and we remanded to the motion judge for the limited purpose of providing defendant an opportunity to present the new information she claimed to possess related to the removal. The motion judge conducted a plenary hearing in July 2019. Defendant testified plaintiff gave false reasons for the move to Florida because he remained employed in New York; defendant observed him at work, was aware he continued to teach six students in New York, and saw his car parked near a Bergen County residence. Defendant also testified plaintiff misrepresented that he was relocating to Naples when he in fact moved to Sarasota. The judge made the following detailed findings:

The opinion that I had come to was . . . I was permitting [plaintiff] to relocate to Florida. Not a particular location within the State of Florida.

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....

. . . I don't know what the fraud is that would be committed. I don't find that there was any intentional act that was uttered or written by him in that regard.

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