AARON KOSTIHA VS. CHAYA GREENSPAN (FM-02-1718-17, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 14, 2019·No. A-3697-17T2·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3697-17T2

AARON KOSTIHA, Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. CHAYA GREENSPAN,

Defendant-Respondent.

Submitted February 12, 2019 – Decided March 14, 2019 Before Judges Yannotti and Gilson.

On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FM-02-1718-17.

Aaron Kostiha, appellant pro se.

Snyder Sarno D'Aniello Maceri & da Costa LLC, attorneys for respondent (Angelo Sarno and Lydia S.

LaTona, of counsel and on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Plaintiff appeals from orders entered by the Family Part on January 19, 2018, and February 13, 2018, which required defendant to appear before the Beis Din of America (Beis Din) and comply with its procedures for providing defendant a Jewish divorce known as a "get." Plaintiff also appeals from an order dated March 21, 2018, which awarded defendant attorney's fees and costs. For the reasons that follow, we dismiss the appeal from the January 19, 2018 and February 13, 2018 orders, and reverse the order of March 21, 2018.

I.

We briefly summarize the relevant facts and procedural history of this dispute. In December 2014, the parties were married in a Jewish ceremony in New York, during which the parties entered into a marriage agreement known as a "ketubah." The agreement states in part that defendant agrees to be plaintiff's wife "according to the Law of Moses and Israel."

The parties separated shortly after the marriage and on May 14, 2015, plaintiff filed a complaint in the Supreme Court of the State of New York, Kings County, seeking an annulment of the marriage. In May 2015, the parties executed a stipulation of settlement, in which they agreed to the equitable distribution of certain property and waived any claims they might have for spousal support. The stipulation also stated that "there are no children of the

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marriage and none are expected." It appears, however, that defendant was seven months pregnant at the time the parties signed the stipulation.

In May 2015, defendant obtained a "get" from a rabbinical court. In a certification filed in the trial court, defendant asserted that she is an observant Orthodox Jew and adheres to the principles of Orthodox Judaism. Defendant stated that under Jewish law, a civil divorce or annulment does not automatically sever the marital relationship between two individuals.

Defendant asserted that Jewish law requires a husband to provide his spouse with a "get," obtained from a rabbinical court. Defendant stated that until the "get" is issued, the couple is still considered married and neither will be permitted to remarry in the Jewish faith. She said the procedure for obtaining a "get" is not complicated and "takes no time at all."

In July 2015, defendant gave birth to a child. It appears that defendant was residing in New Jersey at that time. On August 4, 2015, plaintiff filed a complaint in the Family Part of our Superior Court seeking parenting time with the child. Defendant opposed the motion and filed a counterclaim seeking, among other relief, custody of the child. On January 8, 2016, the New York court entered a judgment, which annulled the parties' marriage.

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On May 5, 2016, the Family Part entered an order awarding defendant temporary legal and residential custody of the child, with plaintiff allowed supervised parenting time. Thereafter, difficulties arose between the parties over parenting time and other issues, which resulted in the issuance of certain orders by the Family Part and a New York court.

In December 2016, plaintiff contacted the Beis Din, which is a rabbinical court that assists persons of the Jewish faith to obtain Jewish divorces. According to defendant, plaintiff attempted to call into question the validity of the "get" the parties had obtained in May 2015. Plaintiff allegedly informed Rabbi Shlomo Weissman of the Beis Din that after the "get" was issued, he continued to reside with defendant.

Rabbi Weissman informed plaintiff that if this were true, the couple would have to appear before a rabbinical court to obtain another "get." Rabbi Weissman later testified in the trial court that another "get" was required because the act of living together constituted a "remarriage" in the Orthodox Jewish religion.

After his conversation with plaintiff, Rabbi Weissman contacted defendant and she asked him to arrange for the issuance of another "get." In March 2017, the Beis Din issued two letters to plaintiff directing him to appear

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so that the second "get" could be issued. Plaintiff did not appear. On April 6, 2017, the Beis Din sent plaintiff another letter, which stated that Jewish law required that he comply with its summons. The April 6, 2017 letter also stated that if plaintiff did not respond, he could be subject to a contempt order of the Beis Din "and its consequences."

On April 26, 2017, the Beis Din wrote to plaintiff and informed him that a contempt order could be issued if he did not comply with its summonses. On May 4, 2017, the Beis Din issued a formal order of contempt to plaintiff based on his failure to comply with the previously-issued summonses. Thereafter, the Beis Din granted defendant permission "to pursue any remedies permitted by secular law."

On September 19, 2017, defendant filed a motion in the Family Part which sought, among other relief, an order compelling plaintiff to appear before the Beis Din and assist her in securing a second "get." Defendant also sought sanctions if plaintiff did not comply with the directives of the Beis Din, and an award of attorney's fees and costs. Plaintiff opposed the motion and filed a cross-motion seeking, among other relief, an order requiring defendant to cooperate with a paternity test.

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By order dated January 19, 2018, the Family Part judge granted defendant's motion and ordered plaintiff to appear before the Beis Din within fourteen days and to comply with its procedures if the Beis Din "recommended" a second "get." The judge denied defendant's motion for sanctions and reserved decision on defendant's application for attorney's fees. The judge also granted plaintiff's motion and ordered the parties to cooperate in obtaining a paternity test.

On February 13, 2018, the parties again appeared before the trial court.

The judge noted that plaintiff had not complied with the court's January 19, 2018 order. Plaintiff told the judge he did not intend to go "to any Jewish ceremony of any kind with my ex-wife in New York." Plaintiff stated that he would not go before the rabbis because he had "religious objections to what they represent."

The judge placed his decision on the record. The judge stated:

[It is] clear that . . . Jewish law . . . says that until a woman obtains a [g]et from her husband . . . she is still considered married to her husband and has no ability to remarry nor to have children from another relationship if she violates this law.

She is considered an adulteress and the child born to such married woman from that subsequent relationship is deemed to be a mamzer. And a mamzer is forbidden to marry another Jew and the mamzer may also not

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marry a gentile. As he or she is still deemed to be a Jew a mamzer is permitted to marry only another mamzer.

....

Thus traditional observant Jewish women cannot and will not remarry or even date without first obtaining a [g]et from their husband.

....

Because the [g]et is the only lifeline for a married woman who wants out of her marriage and because . . .

only the husband . . . is authorized to give it to her[,]

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